[amy40]

although there were memorable times before we became parents, think sex is even better since we became parents (when we can fit it in and when he has the energy)

somehow he seems more attractive to me....maybe it's because he's such a great dad or because he made me a mom or surprises such as
yesterday when he came home from work and just handed me a piece of paper


it was a receipt that he signed child up for activity Fri eve so I know we have a date night...yeah

[Stillness]

think sex is even better since we became parents

That's actually pretty cool to hear. I think there's a lot of backwards cultural ideas about marriage and sex, like that married people have less or worse sex. I think that goes for married parents too. It's nice to hear that for people who are doing things right, an extra dimension of love and pleasure can come along with the added responsibility. Thanks for sharing that

[WaveRider]

Last night/this morning was some of the best sex I can remember. My g/f loves the role of a bedroom porn star and s_l_u_t. She always tells me that I can do anything I want to her, and I have. However, I've never demeaned her or have done anything remotely degrading. She wanted a facial last night. It got buried deep inside of her while I had her on her hand and knees, spanking her, and dirty talking her. She LOVES dirty talk, especially if it involves black men.

BTW, I've recently read research from Rutgers that indicated that 87% of white women want to have sex with black men. I'm not sure, but I think it's a common white woman fantasy. When I tell my g/f that I'm gonna bring in two black dudes with huge packages to work her, her vajayjay gushes. If she's got a particular fantasy going, I'll work it.

Anyway, the older I get, the better sex is. My g/f said it's true for her, too.

[amy40]

It's nice to hear that for people who are doing things right, an extra dimension of love and pleasure can come along with the added responsibility. Thanks for sharing that

thanks still, your post gave me a big smile

[Lexhill]

Best sex I've ever had must be back in my late teens actually. I was with a girl who had the same view on sex as me. That it should be a fun and enjoyable activity that should praised and feed. It was 2 acts one at night before sleep and a nice one in the morning as well. It lasted about 5-6 hours at night and probably just about an hour in the morning. It was amazing, it even got my teeth to tingle. Even thought it was not the most connecting experience it was mechanically the best.

Worst was actually the next girl I had sex with after this. She smoked and had bad hygienic behavior. it smelled and tasted bad. She also thought her fairly large but floppy boobs would to the job. Needless to say no it did not.

Most connecting has been with my wife for sure.

[Texasred]

I heard married sex was the best

Don't believe everything you hear...
it can be the best, or it can be the worst.

[Texasred]

But the very best I've *ever* had is/was with my gf of 8 years - she and I are so totally connected on a sexual level I would not have believed it possible. She just seems to anticipate my every desire, and she tells me I do the same for her.

[amy40]

Don't believe everything you hear...
it can be the best, or it can be the worst.

maybe I should have phrased it, longer you're married, the better it gets
maybe you've been with your g/f of 8 yrs longer than you were married, idk?


plus the longer you're together, the feelings for each other grow and sex can really take on the tenderness you have for each other

[Texasred]

I've been married for 25 years...

[amy40]

I've been married for 25 years...

ok, got confused as some of your posts said wife and some said girlfriend
I get it now after seeing your profile