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  • muffin70
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2013
    • 384

    Is there an item of clothing or something your partner wears


    that really turns you on?

    For me it’s my wife's red / grey spotted cotton scarf…. I don’t know what it is about the scarf, but she wears it regularly to work and it just turns me on so much seeing her wearing it.

    She bought the scarf about 4 years ago on our anniversary weekend – we stopped into a woman’s clothing shop and she said she thought it was a pretty scarf and bought it
    Then that night in our hotel, she stripped naked and did a sexy dance with the scarf, rubbing it over her body before we made love (while the scarf was wrapped around her body).

    Since then every time I see her wearing that scarf I get turned on – and she knows it.

    Sometimes as a turn on for our love making she will wear the scarf for me (or one of the many other scarves she has that I also like) because she knows what it does to me…. And for some reason I seem to have stronger orgasms when she is wearing this scarf.
  • muffin70
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2013
    • 384

    Wife bought a new scarf in the weekend - it's very pretty.... we've not had a chance to 'use it' yet... but I'm sure it will get some use sooner than later :-)

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    • Stillness
      WH Poster of the Month April 2017
      • Feb 2012
      • 3679

      I don't have any kind of fetish that I know of. Have you ever tried to figure out what started the thing with scarves? Was it something in your childhood?
      "Those sowing seed with tears
      Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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      • amy40
        Veteran Member
        • Nov 2016
        • 2732

        Originally posted by Stillness
        I don't have any kind of fetish that I know of. Have you ever tried to figure out what started the thing with scarves? Was it something in your childhood?

        still, muffin posted about it before,
        think I found the post when reading older posts
        muffin70
        do you remember the post, muffin?

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        • muffin70
          Veteran Member
          • Aug 2013
          • 384

          Originally posted by Stillness
          I don't have any kind of fetish that I know of. Have you ever tried to figure out what started the thing with scarves? Was it something in your childhood?
          No - I don't really know how it all started.... I’ve never really been interested in scarves until about 10 years ago?

          Wife wears scarves every week to work most days and it’s mainly only the cotton ones she wears that I like….

          I do remember probably about 10 years ago she’d had a few wines and when we went into the bedroom she stripped naked, grabbed a scarf and proceeded to do some sort of sexy dance with the scarf…. needless to say I got turned on and lay her on the bed and had sex with her while the scarf was draped over her breasts…. So that probably started me off.

          She knows that scarves turn me on and she has over 30 of them as well as woolen ones for winter

          I don’t know what it is, but he she is wearing a nice scarf around her neck / breasts while we are making love then I’m guaranteed to have a much stronger orgasm.

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          • muffin70
            Veteran Member
            • Aug 2013
            • 384

            Originally posted by amy40


            still, muffin posted about it before,
            think I found the post when reading older posts
            muffin70
            do you remember the post, muffin?
            I do remember posting something ages ago about my scarf fetish..... wife thinks it's funny that I fantasise about all the things I'd love to do with her and her scarves....
            thankfully she doesn't mind it :-)

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            • CapeCRunner
              Veteran Member
              • Apr 2014
              • 242

              During the summer when it’s hot out (or sometimes now as he’s changing out of his work clothes) my husband takes his shirt off to hang around the house and is only wearing his jeans/ work boots... it’s a hot look for him... and he has just the right combo of muscle, a little daddy pudge and some chest hair that I just can’t resist him...

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              • atskitty2
                Assistant Admin
                • Aug 2013
                • 4467

                Cape!! It's so good to see you around again! How are you and the family?

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                • amy40
                  Veteran Member
                  • Nov 2016
                  • 2732

                  Originally posted by CapeCRunner
                  (or sometimes now as he’s changing out of his work clothes))
                  yes, I like the changing out of the work clothes
                  when he stops to talk with me and his shirt is unbuttoned, half open, especially if it's a shirt that brings out the color of his eyes

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                  • CapeCRunner
                    Veteran Member
                    • Apr 2014
                    • 242

                    All is well here Atskitty! I feel like i never have time to drop in here anymore! Haha... but yeah we are all good here on my end... hope you are doing well! Almost at the busiest time of the year

                    And Amy... I love that it’s so natural like that... lol naturally appealing

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