[Texasred]

No need to be that way about it. Im inexperienced. Im already ashamed of it

Kristi, lack of experience is nothing to be ashamed of. More to the point, sex is nothing to be ashamed of, being naked is nothing to be ashamed of. And when the two of you feel the time is right to be naked together, I promise you, the man you're with will think you are the most beautiful sight he has ever beheld. Take things slowly, as others here have suggested, and enjoy yourself and enjoy him. Keep in mind that he's as uncertain as you.

[funkykristi]

Ill get on birth control i definately do not want children!

[easygoing]

Im in a new relationship. I mean its less than 48 hours old. Hes great and hes ok with me not feeling ready for sex but eventually there will be an expectation. Ive only ever done it twice and it hurt both times. I can't say i enjoyed it. Ive only given one blow job and was extremely uncomfortable doing it. Im very hard on myself. Im attracted to men but i think im uncomfortable with sex because im uncomfortable with my naked body and im intimidated by the intimacy and fear letting someone down. Am i crazy? How do you overcome these things??

Okay, I'm an old bloke so my views might be ready for the dustbin. BUT, you say you're "uncomfortable with my naked body". That can be a major stumbling block for many people. That alone MAY create discomfort in many areas of your sexual experience. I know you haven't been together for long but I'm sure he didn't become attracted to you because of your naked body... my bet is he LIKES you and on that basis, unless he's a complete prick, will accept you for who and what you are. Chill out and try to relax and enjoy things.

ADMISSION: It's embarrassing to discuss but I offer this to you in good faith. I felt like that for many years because I have a smaller than average penis. In my younger years I was terrified to get showered and changed in locker rooms with my footy mates, and petrified at having a girlfriend see me naked. But it hasn't stopped me from having a wonderful life.