[commonsense]

selfish man

I'll stop doing it 2 him until he does it 2 me, I mean there are many guys out there who'd like 2 do it 2 me but am stuck here wit him

For years there have been guys that want to be served and don't want to serve. If this is something you feel you need in the bedroom, you will have to be firm. Otherwise, it is not going to happen. If he says he just doesn't like doing it and never will, you need to decide if this is something you are willing to live without. If you can't, you need to break this off before you invest to much in it.

[soldatka]

If he's demanding that you do what he likes but he won't even try to please you, then, unless the relationship is fantastic in other ways, I'd dump him. You're as stuck as you want to be.