[WaveRider]

My only comment is "a blow job following anal sex?????" you've got to be kidding.

I agree. That is beyond nasty. That's degrading.

[WaveRider]

I can't remember being with a woman who wasn't submissive most of the time. Most want to be dominated in a rough yet affectionate manner. They love dirty talk, the dirtier the hornier they become. But there's a limit. Slapping *** while banging her dog style is good if it turns her on. If it's physically painful, it wont work. But from my experience, women would rather be roughed up than have tender, loving sex.

My last g/f did not like having sex with submissive men. She wanted me to take charge and treat her like a bedroom porn star. She'd moan with ecstasy when I'd yank her off of a bed, push her to her knees, slap her face with my love muscle, tell her to open her mouth, hold her head still, and bang her mouth. But I rarely came in her mouth. By the time we were finished with foreplay, which could last an hour during which I assured that she came many times, she'd want to be bent over and banged like a cheap screen door in a category 5 hurricane. When she was over, she was back to queen.

I've never caused any woman to feel as though she was obligated to do me. It had to be mutual desire.

As for anal sex, I've yet to try it. I have no interest in it. My ex had offered it to me many times. She told me that she has had anal sex with dudes with whom she was in committed and secure relationships. If they asked for it and she was in the mood, she'd let then bang her ***. For me, it was mostly physical. When I dated her, I was good for one, maybe two a night. If I were good for two, the second would be in her mouth.

Based upon what my last g/f told me, dudes shouldn't expect a woman to submit to anal sex at their pleasure. A woman has to be in the mood for it. And, according to her, it sounded like a lot of work. Besides her being in the mood (I'm assuming alcohol induced relaxation), towels, a lot of the right lubricant was necessary, dudes had to relax her anal cavity by inserting one well lubricated finger and then two well lubricated fingers inside of her butt, then she'd apply a lot of lubricant onto his package and slowly and carefully glide it in. After it was a shower where she'd scrub his package to assure it was spotless before she'd allow him to put his package into her vajayjay. Apparently fecal matter in a vajayjay can cause a serious infection. That sounded like way too much work to be enjoyable.

[Texasred]

Your ex-gf may have been somewhat beyond what a statistician might call the 3-sigma limit...

[WaveRider]

Hi Texasred,

I've never met a woman like my ex-g/f. I've tried to reason my way though her. I'm sure that her elevated testosterone level caused her to crave sex, that craving sex caused her to love sex, and her love of sex caused increase craving of it. She told me that when she was first married in her mid-20's, her ex-husband and her would dedicate a day a week when they'd remain naked all day and have all kinds of sex. I've been with her many times when she has remained naked all day and wanted more sex than I could give.

My ex-wife was horny most of the time, but she couldn't hold a candle to my ex-g/f.

Sometimes it's better to avoid reason and logic and be happy with what you have.