[a_dub]

I've read various articles on how the majority of women don't orgasm from penetration and even some that many men are unable to bring their partners to orgasm. So the question here is can your current SO (husband or BF or FWB) get you to orgasm via penetration? How about from oral or fingering?

Also, what determines if you are able to orgasm? Is it the duration of intercourse, the pace, the rhythm, penis size or shape, or how attracted or "into" your partner you are?

An enquiring mind would like to know, lol. Thanks to all ladies who share their stories in advance.

[Claret]

Lets look at the physiology of things, the vagina itself has no real sensitive nerve endings in it. The outer vulva area does, as does the clitoris so unless the penis is putting pressure on areas that have the nerves what would we (females) feel? We'd feel pressure, thrusting, depth if it hits the cervix but little else. If the male thrusts and also is able to stimulate the vulva or clitoris then we can more easily obtain orgasm. If the size of the penis is such that as the thrust is made, it pulls on the vulva, or the nerves of the clitoris then we'd have an easier as well. The famous G-spot orgasm is approximately where a bundle of nerves meet and lays somewhat approximate to where the clitoris is on the outside.

For me I'd have to be attracted and into my partner. Sometimes its, the duration, the pace the rhythm and or penis shape or size or all of these that will determine whether or not I'd orgasm. Sometimes it would depend upon events happening at work, things going on a home, whether or not I was keyed up, tired or just not really into it at that particular point in time.

Just my thoughts.

[Texasred]

I can't think of a woman ive been with who didnt orgasm from penetration, or rather, during penetration. And this is a fairly large sample size...

[Texasred]

Some would orgasm much more quickly from oral or manual stimulation, of course, but not all.

[amy40]

Some would orgasm much more quickly from oral or manual stimulation, of course, but not all.

if the women does it herself, there's a pretty good chance

[Texasred]

Well, I was referring to my hands... :-))

[daimio]

There are many women who have difficulty reaching orgasm with penetration, others use stimulation of the clitoris, every human body is a world. So the best thing is to experiment with sexuality to discover oneself . I recommend this article to help you

[atskitty2]

Welcome diaimo.
Links not permitted. Please share the details of the ted talk and we'd love to discuss!

[WaveRider]

Communication between partners is crucial for a fulfilling sex life. Most of sex communication should occur outside of a bedroom. That way, you'll know what he or she likes before you get naked.

My last g/f and I had hours of sex talk while dining and drinking wine. After her third glass, most of what she said was about sex. She told me what she liked and didn't like, and there's not much she didn't like. She has told me many times that I'm the best sex she's ever had. That's because I've listened to her and never, ever judged her. In contrast, she her ex-husband was very sexually inexperienced. Their lack of sex communication caused sexual dysfunction which was a prominent cause of their divorce. If he had listened to her without judgment, he'd of had incredible sex.

[WaveRider]

BTW, my last g/f, like most women, rarely came from intercourse. There were only two positions that could cause her to get off. Her favorite way of orgasm was tongue music. After I bought her a butt plug and a black (her idea) vibrator, I'd put her butt plug in and her vibrator inside of her vaajayjay. When my tongue played rock & roll on her clit while I was banging her with her vibrator, her orgasms were most massive.

She still has a thing for black dudes. I hope she's able to fulfill her fantasy.