[Deb and dave]

Last few months I've been having sex with a co-worker and couple of his friends during the week. I want to tell my husband that it's just sex. He said I could play around but I haven't told him yet.

[atskitty2]

So, are you in an open marriage? Is your husband also having sex outside the marriage?

??????

[Deb and dave]

No he doesn't but he d
said I could. He doesn't know that there black guys

[muffin70]

ok first question - I hope you're using condoms.... second question - do you think when your husband said 'play around' he meant you could have sex with 2-3 people?
if you're using condoms and your husband is happy for you to sleep with other men, then it wouldn't matter if what their skin colour is....
I think you need to come clean with your husband - just be honest and up front with him

[Ashlee T.]

So...........what is it that you need an opinion on?

It sounds like you two probably need to discuss the boundaries of this "playing around".

[WaveRider]

So...........what is it that you need an opinion on?

It sounds like you two probably need to discuss the boundaries of this "playing around".

Beautiful Diaster,

You and I think alike. What the heck advice is she seeking? That she should tell her husband? Whether dudes' race matters that she's banging dudes outside of marriage w/o her husband's consent?

BTW, not all that long ago, I read a synopsis of research that indicated that when married women stray, they often fulfill fantasies of banging black dudes.