At the time I thought it was pretty silly. Since then I’ve learned a lot more about fetishes (and the people who live with them) and find myself fascinated by the rich tapestry that sexuality is.
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Shoe fetish pleasures are generally very misunderstood by both psychologists, non fetishists, and women. I am a silent PsyD with a life long flaming shoe fetish and have done research on this topic for many years. At first I felt it was an abnormal sexuality and over time I realized that I was very wrong. I was also wrong about the number of people who enjoy this fetish which was believed only men but it turns out some women as well. I posted a summary of thoughts and comments if you search shoefetish-bootfetish and you may gain some new insights. Not all real life situations fit the DSM5. Because of the trauma that some feel when they evolve into realizing they have a shoe/boot fetish, I felt this commentary was needed. Please take a look and discuss as you may.
Sadly I find most of us are farther hidden in our closets than the LGBT world once was because of the thoughts associated with shoe sexuality and how society has dealt with it,,,, sadly,,, Badly. It took over 25 years to evolve the research and the site for the average person and for researchers to gain a real life view. Shoefetish-bootfetish. To this day even I am limited in admitting my fetish because the commentary it generates.
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