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  • Wednesday L.F.
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2020
    • 362

    At the time I thought it was pretty silly. Since then I’ve learned a lot more about fetishes (and the people who live with them) and find myself fascinated by the rich tapestry that sexuality is.

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    • shoejob
      Junior Member
      • Sep 2021
      • 2

      Hello all, I have a FULL BLOWN Classic High Heel Closed Pointed or Rounded Toe Stiletto Pumps/Shoes, etc. Shoe Fetish for OVER 40 years!!!! The main objective is looking at them being wore for Self Pleasuring!

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      • shoejob
        Junior Member
        • Sep 2021
        • 2

        Hello, so I would not be fully honest if I did not mention the Women on this post are perfect supermodel quality dreams for my shoe fetish! If only y'all knew?

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        • Srotoys
          Junior Member
          • Nov 2021
          • 2

          Shoe fetish pleasures are generally very misunderstood by both psychologists, non fetishists, and women. I am a silent PsyD with a life long flaming shoe fetish and have done research on this topic for many years. At first I felt it was an abnormal sexuality and over time I realized that I was very wrong. I was also wrong about the number of people who enjoy this fetish which was believed only men but it turns out some women as well. I posted a summary of thoughts and comments if you search shoefetish-bootfetish and you may gain some new insights. Not all real life situations fit the DSM5. Because of the trauma that some feel when they evolve into realizing they have a shoe/boot fetish, I felt this commentary was needed. Please take a look and discuss as you may.

          Sadly I find most of us are farther hidden in our closets than the LGBT world once was because of the thoughts associated with shoe sexuality and how society has dealt with it,,,, sadly,,, Badly. It took over 25 years to evolve the research and the site for the average person and for researchers to gain a real life view. Shoefetish-bootfetish. To this day even I am limited in admitting my fetish because the commentary it generates.



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          • archieee
            Junior Member
            • Dec 2022
            • 1

            I actually have a foot fetish and I opened up to my girlfriend. I am a male and it's definitely very uncommon in males to love wearing heels and to love having sex while wearing heels. But I communicated it to my partner little by little that it makes me excited and I can do nothing about it. Apparently she also loved the idea of me wearing heels during sex. But it's not like I wear it everytime. But yeah I definitely love when we do it like that.

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            • Srotoys
              Junior Member
              • Nov 2021
              • 2

              OK, I have found this is a topic that has many but few are willing to admit it. A shoe fetish is a kind of love that people won't even discuss. I will, do a search of shoefetish-bootfetish and there is a full range of discussions accumulated over decades on this topic. My fetish falls short of many of the posters but let me share that once a person gets turned on by shoes it is a fetish that probably will stay the rest of their life. Simply put it is the closest thing to intercourse I have ever experienced and much better than masturbation.

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              • EmptyNester
                Member
                • Nov 2021
                • 71

                I had a period of time where my wife would "entice" me with some (what I called) "Stripper" heels. Loved it!

                Might be time to get her to "model" her knee-high boots!

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                • Wednesday L.F.
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2020
                  • 362

                  Originally posted by Srotoys
                  OK, I have found this is a topic that has many but few are willing to admit it. A shoe fetish is a kind of love that people won't even discuss. I will, do a search of shoefetish-bootfetish and there is a full range of discussions accumulated over decades on this topic. My fetish falls short of many of the posters but let me share that once a person gets turned on by shoes it is a fetish that probably will stay the rest of their life. Simply put it is the closest thing to intercourse I have ever experienced and much better than masturbation.
                  I encountered my first foot-fetishist when I was still doing phonesex for a living. It's actually a very common fetish and there are, for lack of a better term, support groups for people who share this fascination as a fetish or a kink. Facebook and Reddit both have a bunch.

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