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Shoe fetish pleasures are generally very misunderstood by both psychologists, non fetishists, and women. I am a silent PsyD with a life long flaming shoe fetish and have done research on this topic for many years. At first I felt it was an abnormal sexuality and over time I realized that I was very wrong. I was also wrong about the number of people who enjoy this fetish which was believed only men but it turns out some women as well. I posted a summary of thoughts and comments if you search shoefetish-bootfetish and you may gain some new insights. Not all real life situations fit the DSM5. Because of the trauma that some feel when they evolve into realizing they have a shoe/boot fetish, I felt this commentary was needed. Please take a look and discuss as you may.
Sadly I find most of us are farther hidden in our closets than the LGBT world once was because of the thoughts associated with shoe sexuality and how society has dealt with it,,,, sadly,,, Badly. It took over 25 years to evolve the research and the site for the average person and for researchers to gain a real life view. Shoefetish-bootfetish. To this day even I am limited in admitting my fetish because the commentary it generates.
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I actually have a foot fetish and I opened up to my girlfriend. I am a male and it's definitely very uncommon in males to love wearing heels and to love having sex while wearing heels. But I communicated it to my partner little by little that it makes me excited and I can do nothing about it. Apparently she also loved the idea of me wearing heels during sex. But it's not like I wear it everytime. But yeah I definitely love when we do it like that.Comment
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OK, I have found this is a topic that has many but few are willing to admit it. A shoe fetish is a kind of love that people won't even discuss. I will, do a search of shoefetish-bootfetish and there is a full range of discussions accumulated over decades on this topic. My fetish falls short of many of the posters but let me share that once a person gets turned on by shoes it is a fetish that probably will stay the rest of their life. Simply put it is the closest thing to intercourse I have ever experienced and much better than masturbation.Comment
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I encountered my first foot-fetishist when I was still doing phonesex for a living. It's actually a very common fetish and there are, for lack of a better term, support groups for people who share this fascination as a fetish or a kink. Facebook and Reddit both have a bunch.OK, I have found this is a topic that has many but few are willing to admit it. A shoe fetish is a kind of love that people won't even discuss. I will, do a search of shoefetish-bootfetish and there is a full range of discussions accumulated over decades on this topic. My fetish falls short of many of the posters but let me share that once a person gets turned on by shoes it is a fetish that probably will stay the rest of their life. Simply put it is the closest thing to intercourse I have ever experienced and much better than masturbation.Comment
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