JonnyR I agree and have had similar experiences. And as i mentioned, i wasn't always a shooter either. So i know what it's like on both sides. My intent isn't to shame or deminish anyone else's experiences either. But there's always a preference. For example, when getting (or giving) a BJ, there's the classic choice of whether to spit or swallow. Now the BJ itself may be satisfactory for both partners invoked, regardless of how it "ends", and that's totally fine. But i garuntee you that either partner still has their personal preference of which best excites or is more pleasurable or even desirable for them. That's what I'm trying to get to here. The down and dirty of which do women prefer or best enjoy.
When i asked my wife this very same question, she too initially answered with "it didn't really matter". I think those sort of responses are just automatic to when people haven't really considered the subject. And i get it. When entering into a sexual encounter, "is he a dribbler or shooter" likely isn't on the things to consider list. As partners get more experienced and comfortable with each other to explore their sexuality, i do believe they can get to a point where things like this can be discussed and explored. But by no means does it or should it be a deal breaker for the relationship. So when i had my wife really think about it, she said she actually does prefer my ability to shoot. To her, it makes my orgasms more intense and she can usually feel me cumming inside her. Not just the throbbing of my shaft or the tensing of my body, but my cum actually splashing into her. She compared it to being shot with those small dollar store water guns. She normally cums shortly before i do, so her vagina is quite sensitive at that point anyway. Even in cowgirl, she can feel me shoot up into her.
Now, she totally could have been stroking my ego, but at least she considered what she likes and we talked about it.
When i asked my wife this very same question, she too initially answered with "it didn't really matter". I think those sort of responses are just automatic to when people haven't really considered the subject. And i get it. When entering into a sexual encounter, "is he a dribbler or shooter" likely isn't on the things to consider list. As partners get more experienced and comfortable with each other to explore their sexuality, i do believe they can get to a point where things like this can be discussed and explored. But by no means does it or should it be a deal breaker for the relationship. So when i had my wife really think about it, she said she actually does prefer my ability to shoot. To her, it makes my orgasms more intense and she can usually feel me cumming inside her. Not just the throbbing of my shaft or the tensing of my body, but my cum actually splashing into her. She compared it to being shot with those small dollar store water guns. She normally cums shortly before i do, so her vagina is quite sensitive at that point anyway. Even in cowgirl, she can feel me shoot up into her.
Now, she totally could have been stroking my ego, but at least she considered what she likes and we talked about it.
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