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Ladies...

My wife wants to be adventurous and try a remote control vibrator / vibrating panties in public. Of course I am game. She wants me to surprise her on our anniversary. I am looking for some advice on what to get and how to make the evening enjoyable for her so she'll want to try it again.

- better to get one that is worn externally (against clit or between libia) or internally either insertable or the panties with a small dildo
- better to leave constantly on low vib or completely turn off between stimulation
- better to keep it to a long tease or bring to climaxes
- is it fun to be stimulated in front of others (like restaurant waiter) or rather not
- how to avoid embarrassing wet spot in pants
- other suggests do's and do not's?

[jen1447]

- better to get one that is worn externally (against clit or between libia) or internally either insertable or the panties with a small dildo

They both have issues with staying in. Otherwise, which would she prefer? The butterfly ones are made to hit both the clit (externally) and the g-spot (internally).

- better to leave constantly on low vib or completely turn off between stimulation

I hear that they actually don't work so great with the whole wireless thing, so it might be a moot point. If you're going to turn it on and off, you might get frustrated with the performance issues, but on the other hand leaving it on all the time could be a problem for obvious reasons.

- better to keep it to a long tease or bring to climaxes

Personally I would use it to tease while in public unless you really want her to cum - if you do you'd better be in a semi private place.

- is it fun to be stimulated in front of others (like restaurant waiter) or rather not

Yes! I think that's kind of the idea.

- how to avoid embarrassing wet spot in pants

Wear a dress. She'll have to wear some fairly functional underwear to keep it in anyway, and you won't want the butterfly showing thru pants.

- other suggests do's and do not's?

They seem a bit underwhelming honestly, from what I hear. Maybe the tech will improve lol. If you're just doing it for fun tho, it probably won't matter so much as it will just be a silly thing for you. Enjoy.

(I usually love Lelo toys but I hear the We-Vibe is actually better on this one. Lelo has the Tiani and Lyla.)

[kira]

The good ones seem too pricy for the quality and the cheap ones don't work well at all. The problem lies in the fact every woman has different anatomy so they make them toward what they think is the average shape. Then it doesn't line up for at least half if not majority of women. Several might have to be tried to find one that fits properly. Especially a problem if you are going for the more expensive ones.

Other than that leaving a vibrator on all the time with no other stimulation rapidly leads to ignoring it. Sometimes they don't even work if the woman isn't partially aroused in the first place. I find it most stimulating when my husband goes back and forth between vibrator and fingers so I don't get dull to the vibrator. Otherwise it's not good for more than 10-20mins. Then I just get distracted by something and lose all arousal. The vibrator might as well not be there.