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  • amy40
    Veteran Member
    • Nov 2016
    • 2732

    have you had sex outside?

    in the woods, mountains, or outskirts of town?
  • EmptyNester
    Member
    • Nov 2021
    • 71

    The most memorable was one spring night after a nice dinner north of Scottsdale. We found a secluded spot in the desert. I had an air mattress ready to go in the back of my truck! The stars were amazing... as was she!

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    • atskitty2
      Assistant Admin
      • Aug 2013
      • 4467

      Yes. I'm all about it.

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      • Wednesday L.F.
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2020
        • 362

        I used to be a fan of sex in the bed of my bf’s pickup truck. Loved being under the open sky…just not during mosquito season.

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        • JonnyR
          Veteran Member
          • May 2018
          • 211

          I think this is a right of passage no? LOL...

          Whether you're a teenager who has no choice if you want to get some, to an enterprising adult going with the flow, I pride myself on doing it wherever and whenever suits.

          Cest la vie!

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          • Kayla Lords
            Writer & Contributor
            • Aug 2021
            • 106

            I had sex outside one time when I was a teenager. We were at a local freshwater beachy area - in a semi-private area - with nothing between us and the ground. A few weeks later, I was diagnosed with a pilonidal cyst in my tailbone - the doctor said it could have happened if sand got into my bathing suit, that it happened all the time in our area because of that. The only time I'd been in a bathing suit in the preceding few months was during that one outing. The cyst was so painful and required surgery to remove - I've never had sex outside again. Lesson learned, lol.

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            • jns
              Assistant Admin
              • Mar 2010
              • 8398

              Originally posted by Kayla Lords
              I had sex outside one time when I was a teenager. We were at a local freshwater beachy area - in a semi-private area - with nothing between us and the ground. A few weeks later, I was diagnosed with a pilonidal cyst in my tailbone - the doctor said it could have happened if sand got into my bathing suit, that it happened all the time in our area because of that. The only time I'd been in a bathing suit in the preceding few months was during that one outing. The cyst was so painful and required surgery to remove - I've never had sex outside again. Lesson learned, lol.
              Ouch. I had an abscess where my leg meets my butt and it was extremely painful to sit on. I ended up taking off work and going to the doctor who told me it was already draining and gave me a prescription for some cream. In your situation it would have been best if you were on top. I looked up that type of cyst and it said that such cysts were more common for men than women. Jeepers.
              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
              ...
              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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              • Alison H.
                WHI Lead Administrator
                • Aug 2019
                • 312

                Oh definitely — I lost my virginity outside, actually. I wouldn't say it was super romantic, although I did see stars... only because I was laying on my back and staring up at them wondering to myself "Is this what all the fuss was about?"

                In all seriousness, though, sex outdoors is exciting and almost animalistic in a way. Maybe because it just feels more natural in some primitive part of your brain or something. But in the back of a truck, on the ground (day and night), in an archery stand (yes really), in a tent (if that counts)... those are memories I haven't thought about in YEARS.

                I lost a locket that way once. I remember taking it off because of the way it was swinging around, realized the next morning I wasn't wearing anymore, went down by the lake where we were and just... never found it. 30 years later, it's probably still there somewhere. LOL!

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                • Zoë T.
                  Writer & Contributor
                  • Mar 2021
                  • 63

                  Alison H. I agree with the question you raised! Does tent sex count!? The only time I had sex outside was on a camping trip (technically inside) a tent. It was a fun experience and lucky for me, since we were inside a tent I didn't have to deal with any painful cysts from sandy sex Kayla Lords ! That sounds so awful!

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                  • amy40
                    Veteran Member
                    • Nov 2016
                    • 2732

                    thanks for sharing everyone!

                    we only did it outside twice
                    once time was on vacation

                    it's exciting cause there's always the chance of getting caught

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