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I had sex outside one time when I was a teenager. We were at a local freshwater beachy area - in a semi-private area - with nothing between us and the ground. A few weeks later, I was diagnosed with a pilonidal cyst in my tailbone - the doctor said it could have happened if sand got into my bathing suit, that it happened all the time in our area because of that. The only time I'd been in a bathing suit in the preceding few months was during that one outing. The cyst was so painful and required surgery to remove - I've never had sex outside again. Lesson learned, lol.Comment
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Ouch. I had an abscess where my leg meets my butt and it was extremely painful to sit on. I ended up taking off work and going to the doctor who told me it was already draining and gave me a prescription for some cream. In your situation it would have been best if you were on top. I looked up that type of cyst and it said that such cysts were more common for men than women. Jeepers.I had sex outside one time when I was a teenager. We were at a local freshwater beachy area - in a semi-private area - with nothing between us and the ground. A few weeks later, I was diagnosed with a pilonidal cyst in my tailbone - the doctor said it could have happened if sand got into my bathing suit, that it happened all the time in our area because of that. The only time I'd been in a bathing suit in the preceding few months was during that one outing. The cyst was so painful and required surgery to remove - I've never had sex outside again. Lesson learned, lol.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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Oh definitely — I lost my virginity outside, actually. I wouldn't say it was super romantic, although I did see stars... only because I was laying on my back and staring up at them wondering to myself "Is this what all the fuss was about?"
In all seriousness, though, sex outdoors is exciting and almost animalistic in a way. Maybe because it just feels more natural in some primitive part of your brain or something. But in the back of a truck, on the ground (day and night), in an archery stand (yes really), in a tent (if that counts)... those are memories I haven't thought about in YEARS.
I lost a locket that way once. I remember taking it off because of the way it was swinging around, realized the next morning I wasn't wearing anymore, went down by the lake where we were and just... never found it. 30 years later, it's probably still there somewhere. LOL!Comment
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Alison H. I agree with the question you raised! Does tent sex count!? The only time I had sex outside was on a camping trip (technically inside) a tent. It was a fun experience and lucky for me, since we were inside a tent I didn't have to deal with any painful cysts from sandy sex Kayla Lords ! That sounds so awful!Comment
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