[MrMr]

I'm glad someone brought up this topic. I have a wonderful husband who is endlessly loving and supportive. Still, my fantasy life includes RL people, exes, former coworkers, etc. I've joked about this with him, but I don't think I'd ever admit to the extent or frequency of these fantasies--or that they occasionally occur during sex with my hubs.

What I wonder is, how do we get past the feelings of guilt that accompany this? Or should we? Is it possible to just stop fantasizing about other people? I can't convince myself that it's harmless so long as it all stays in my mind. My mind can be very persistent.

Ask him how he’d feel if another woman played with herself while you blew him. The intimacy is still between you

[MrMr]

One of my friends went out with a guy who had an absolutely massive c*ck. My partner wanted to see it so we coupled up and watched each other have oral sex. No cheating no feelings hurt

[Nair1970]

You are definitely not alone here. I love my husband, but I have always had this fantasy of hooking up with my hubby’s best friend behind his back. I know that sounds terrible, but I do. Well one night we hosted a party at our house. Lots of drinking going on. My husband was outside grilling our food, and I ended up giving the best friend a blowjob in our bathroom. It was so hot knowing my husband was outside the whole time. I was afraid my husband was going to be coming in with the food at anytime so nothing else happened. When I sobered up the next morning I did feel a bit guilty, but it turned me on more than I felt guilt. This was last year and my husband never found out.

Exactly this is what I want to happen with my wife..i tried to introduce good young men with whom she could flirt.
.but she seems to be not convinced...

[Nair1970]

I am wondering if this is normal/typical with other women.

My husband and I have a great relationship and sex life. But there are two other people I seem to be sexually attracted to. One is an old crush from high school and the other is a friend from a prior job. Whenever I happen to be around them (only 1-2 times each year … so not often) … I get flush, feel my girl parts get aroused, and think about the enjoyment of taking them in me. There is no flirting or anything, it just happens automatically. It’s a nice feeling, but also makes me feel a bit guilty afterwards.

Anyone else have similar experiences?

I do have a desire to watch my wife being treated on bed like a queen by another man....love to have a peg of whiskey while watching my beauty being treated on bed

[Rayn]

It's normal. Just because you're married in no way means that you'll never find anyone else attractive again. My wife and i have been together nearly 20 years, so trust me when i say it's the love, trust, and commitment you have for each other that's the real glue to your marriage.