[victoriachan365]

Is there anybody who has their tongue pierced, or has had it in the past? How did your partners enjoy it when you went down on them? I've been contemplating getting my tongue pierced for my boyfriend. Not that he has asked or is even aware that I'm entertaining this idea, but I'd really like to give him something different and exciting next time we're together which won't be for a few months (long distance relationship). I really don't wanna alter my body for someone else though. If not a piercing, are there any toys out there that would have a similar effect?

[jns]

Is there anybody who has their tongue pierced, or has had it in the past? How did your partners enjoy it when you went down on them? I've been contemplating getting my tongue pierced for my boyfriend. Not that he has asked or is even aware that I'm entertaining this idea, but I'd really like to give him something different and exciting next time we're together which won't be for a few months (long distance relationship). I really don't wanna alter my body for someone else though. If not a piercing, are there any toys out there that would have a similar effect?

I would say only do it if it is something you want to do and will be happy with years down the road. If kissing is a favorite activity, remember that having something extra in your mouth will change that for both of you with determining if it is better or worse or about the same to be decided later.

[Rayn]

victoriachan365 as a guy, i love getting a nice passionate bj. So i applaud your initiate in wanting to take your head game to another level. But there are less extreme measures that can be taken.

First, let's address the tongue ring. If that's something you want to do, cool. But giving head shouldn't be the reason. As you mentored, you don't get to see your boyfriend often. Even if you did, I'd doubt you'd be blowing him 24/7. So is a tongue ring something you see yourself with in your everyday life? What if you go through the trouble of getting a tongue ring and it doesn't have the desired effect?

Now, as far as the bj goes, it's really the personal preference of the people involved. If you're looking to change things up, might i suggest altering your technique rather than your physical appearance. And there's limitless possibilities on how to accomplish this. Play around and explore to see what you both like. Beforehand, ask him straight out, "Hon' what would you like for the ultimate bj experience?" During the act itself you can ask how it feels or if he likes it. You can change positions, angles, speed, pressure. You could even stick a finger or appropriate sex toy into his anus to massage the prostate (if that's something y'all are into). Again, the possibilities are virtually endless. Good luck.