Worried that he won't go down on me

[Roxie88]

Dear Roxie,
Might be the reason is he is not have enough knowledge about intimacy.He may be afraid of making you pregnant unknowingly or might be He is having a fobia of **** insertion.
I know one of my friend of similarly He used to have blowjob with her GF and only fingered her GF but never ever insert his penis due to that fobia. Later on after many counselings he could make it and after that he used to enjoy intimacy.
Might be it is good if you consult counselor along with your BF.

Hi Summer, thanks for the message but that isn't the problem that I described.

[atskitty2]

Hello Roxie88! Welcome to the forum!

Have you asked him specifically about this?

[Summer]

Roxie88 please let me know your view on this.

[Summer]

I am in a brand new relationship where everything is seemingly perfect. We are 36 and 37 yrs.

Intimacy has been very passionate and wonderful. He has been on medication which has made maintaining an election challenging, however he has assured me this is temporary and I am being patient.

When we do share intimacy however, he has never initiated going down on me, he just fingers me until I get off, whereas I am always giving him blowjobs.

He already feels inadequate about the erectile issue, so how do I bring this up without being critical or potentially making things worse?

Not going down on me would honestly be the biggest intimacy killer for me.. i love to go down and I will offer it any time, day or night. But i get resentful quickly and refuse to do it again if he doesnt care to please me..

Please help, he is perfect in EVERY other way..

Dear Roxie,
Might be the reason is he is not have enough knowledge about intimacy.He may be afraid of making you pregnant unknowingly or might be He is having a fobia of **** insertion.
I know one of my friend of similarly He used to have blowjob with her GF and only fingered her GF but never ever insert his penis due to that fobia. Later on after many counselings he could make it and after that he used to enjoy intimacy.
Might be it is good if you consult counselor along with your BF.

[Roxie88]

I am in a brand new relationship where everything is seemingly perfect. We are 36 and 37 yrs.

Intimacy has been very passionate and wonderful. He has been on medication which has made maintaining an election challenging, however he has assured me this is temporary and I am being patient.

When we do share intimacy however, he has never initiated going down on me, he just fingers me until I get off, whereas I am always giving him blowjobs.

He already feels inadequate about the erectile issue, so how do I bring this up without being critical or potentially making things worse?

Not going down on me would honestly be the biggest intimacy killer for me.. i love to go down and I will offer it any time, day or night. But i get resentful quickly and refuse to do it again if he doesnt care to please me..

Please help, he is perfect in EVERY other way..