[Eva_B]

Before starting a **** buddy relationship, what should we talk about and negotiate? I appreciate your insights.

[Jelcee42]

Ensure your safety and get screened for STDs. Use protection and birth control. Be open and communicate what you enjoy and what you’d like to explore. Be respectful, affectionate, and sensual.

[EmptyNester]

How will you handle things if emotions get involved?

[Eva_B]

Ensure your safety and get screened for STDs. Use protection and birth control. Be open and communicate what you enjoy and what you’d like to explore. Be respectful, affectionate, and sensual.

Thank you for your insights! All those are being discussed.

[Eva_B]

How will you handle things if emotions get involved?

I have someone else who fullfils my emotional needs, so hopefully I won't catch any feelings.

[EmptyNester]

I have someone else who fullfils my emotional needs, so hopefully I won't catch any feelings.

Why not have sex with the person that fills your emotional needs?

[Eva_B]

Why not have sex with the person that fills your emotional needs?

It is a long distance non-conventional relationship, so it is difficult to meet regularly.

[Glasgowgal]

Fwb can be great but make sure it's with someone who satisfies you.

[GlasFel]

It is a long distance non-conventional relationship, so it is difficult to meet regularly.

Can I ask if your long distance partner knows you plan to get a f buddy and would they still carry on seeing you regularly if they knew that was going on? Or are you going to keep it a secret?

[Wednesday L.F.]

Can I ask if your long distance partner knows you plan to get a f buddy and would they still carry on seeing you regularly if they knew that was going on? Or are you going to keep it a secret?

Good day! Mod here.
Here in the WHI forums, we all do our best not to judge anyone else’s choices. People’s relationship choices are their own to manage. In fact, that’s one of our Forum Rules!