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    Can we who enjoy penises on our sex partners talk seriously for a moment?

    I'm still seeing tons of questions from penis-havers asking about how important length, girth, and stamina are for their partners. This is shocking to me, and kinda depressing. It seems like sexual enlightenment would include the idea that there are a zillion different types of bodies and that somewhere there is someone who likes the one you have.

    Moreover though, I can't think of a time I'd ever made a relationship or sexual decision--even at my most promiscious--based solely on penis size, or on body type at all.

    This leads me to wonder, am I unusual in this?
    Are there people out there who really make life choices based on penis length or girth? I can see for a single encounter, maybe wanting to go for it with a truly remarkable penis. But usually I've decided whether or not I'm down for sex long before anything is whipped out.

    Talk to me. Is this typical?

  • Wednesday, My insight into this; for me at least, it's kind of missing the point about penis insecurities. Women, my wife included, seem to think that as long as you, as a complete package, are preferable to the other guy with the massive schlong that should reassure us. The fact that she didn't make a choice based solely on penis size is little consolation when I know she's had a guy that's twice my size. Just as many women don't choose to but still do base their self esteem on their body size and shape, many men do it with their penis's. I can still be a way better husband and lover than that guy but because he's got a bigger one than me I'll always feel inadequate in relation. What you are clearly saying for you is that it's not that important and I'm sure it's going to be the same for 90 percent of other women, but it's the fact that you understand why a girl might give a truly remarkable penis a try that tells us what we already believe - that it's something worth having.

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    • Originally posted by Wednesday L.F. View Post
      Can we who enjoy penises on our sex partners talk seriously for a moment?

      I'm still seeing tons of questions from penis-havers asking about how important length, girth, and stamina are for their partners. This is shocking to me, and kinda depressing. It seems like sexual enlightenment would include the idea that there are a zillion different types of bodies and that somewhere there is someone who likes the one you have.

      Moreover though, I can't think of a time I'd ever made a relationship or sexual decision--even at my most promiscious--based solely on penis size, or on body type at all.

      This leads me to wonder, am I unusual in this?
      Are there people out there who really make life choices based on penis length or girth? I can see for a single encounter, maybe wanting to go for it with a truly remarkable penis. But usually I've decided whether or not I'm down for sex long before anything is whipped out.

      Talk to me. Is this typical?
      People can be insecure about almost anything. Penis-havers who feel inadequate are just one of the insecure groups. This most certainly doesn't encompass all men or even most men. I think that penis-havers who feel inadequate about length and girth would still feel inadequate if there was a world wide comparison and they were the absolute number one in those terms.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • 222 views and 2 responses. Wednesday, not one of those other viewers chose to respond that they don't choose partners based solely on penis size. I'd be surprised but perhaps they all do and you're alone in this? Who knows without any response?

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        • Originally posted by AdamFinch View Post
          222 views and 2 responses. Wednesday, not one of those other viewers chose to respond that they don't choose partners based solely on penis size. I'd be surprised but perhaps they all do and you're alone in this? Who knows without any response?
          This subject of penis size, or more accurately penis length, has been discussed extensively in other threads. It can be searched for. There were plenty of responses on some of the threads and a lot of women said that length was not what they valued in penises. I think that a lot of women have already stated their views and do not feel that is necessary to state them again for the latest discussion. I have been with at least several dozen women and none of them complained of my average penis length.
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          • Wednesday L.F. I got a penis which is around 9-10 inch when erected. I have not been in sex with anyone so far. I do have doubt that is that big penis would be painful for partner in having penetration? What if she would have difficulty or pain in taking so long ? Would I have to endup only in oral ?

            What I think that if it is smaller or even tiny it is manageable as for some women size doesn't matter at all but what if it is huge because that would have to go inside and that may have other issue ?

            May please clear it with a women perspective?
            Last edited by summer21031985; 10-21-2023, 12:56 AM.

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            • This is one of those rare questions that leads me to suggest pornographic content for your answer. If you search any porn-centric website for “large penis” or “10 inches” you’ll find a variety of people with penises on par with your own. Watch closely and be sure to note any difficulties you see. That should answer your question.

              For me personally, length is not a factor in comfort or enjoyment. If anything, I prefer shorter, thicker cocks since that’s my preference to fellate.

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              • Wednesday L.F. Thank you dear for your inputs. But I found that the prnographic contents are not as it is actual, they are much more then reality ?
                I was expecting the real experience of anyone have or anyone have idea about that?

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                • If you’re talking about whether an enormous penis can be accepted by an average vagina/vulva, porn is just as accurate as real life…unless the sex is CGI or somthing.

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                  • Originally posted by Wednesday L.F. View Post
                    This leads me to wonder, am I unusual in this?
                    Are there people out there who really make life choices based on penis length or girth? I can see for a single encounter, maybe wanting to go for it with a truly remarkable penis. But usually I've decided whether or not I'm down for sex long before anything is whipped out.

                    Talk to me. Is this typical?
                    I don't think you're unusual in how you feel at all — a man's penis size (or shape, or appearance, curvature, whatever) has never had an effect on whether or not I'd have sex with him. For me (and likely for you, it seems) it's the guy attached to it that makes or breaks the deal.




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