[cookiemonster]

I'm the same way, and my boyfriend sometimes keeps his boxers on when we have sex but when were done they're all wet and its kind of awkward, but i guess it's better than drying up, just creates a bit more cleaning up lol

[rapidtongue]

I love it awesome wet! The wetter the better

lmao at life.... so where are these men then?
Cause I'm done!

here I am. I love women who can get soo wet. All my life I´ve been searching for such an dripping angel and here they are *g*
The juices just taste soo good when a girl has too much of them and gets "too wet" I go down and make her cum with my tongue

I love it when they´re sitting on top of me and make me drink they´re wonderful juices mhhhhh that´s so awesome!

[cubanlink]

I wasn't going to reply to this, then i thought well why not? Who is Chandlers Wish? And i realised, she is a new woman in her 40's that has explored and learnt that it is true what they say, ( regardless of all the ages involved in this thread), or those whom read it, but it is a i don't know, exciting journey to find yourself again, then to discover there is even more, if that is at all possible but it is. I remembering reading a post, a few times actually where i even posed the question of why do you do that? Being that she put mats below her, it all sounded a bit strange to me, until one day, very recent, i experienced it. Not once either, but twice. So peeved, i had washed the sheets the day before as well. Lol. It was the most fasinating, amusing, scary, feeling i have ever experienced in my life. I was told, there and then, that some women do and some women never ever experience it. I am here to say, WOW, the feeling i felt doing that, and then the excitement made me do it again, and well, all due to a man but never the less, if you asked me that in my 44 years if it was possible and reading that it was, but actually doing it, well that's a different story. Now i know, the intensity of sexuality, it does exist if you allow it to and yep, my fear is doing it again ( NOT)... CW

very interesting.

[fannyann]

New problem for me

I'm so glad this website and forum exists as I've been having this problem since getting with my new boyfriend and have been concerned so it's good to know there are other women out there experiencing the same.

I've been with my boyf for about 2 / 3 months and since we started having sex I've been getting 'too wet'. This was never an issue with my previous boyf so at nearly 30 it seems strange to be having this for the first time. It's not so much the being wet that is a problem, as with his size it is much needed . The problem I'm having is the noise! In some positions it is much worse that others and we tend to ignore it or laugh at it if it's particularly loud but I'm a bit embarrassed by it. It's not stopped us having sex yet but I'm becoming more and more self conscious. I don't know if it it my body's reaction to his size or just because he turns me on so much.

Other posters have recommended exercises, does anyone know if this works? Other than that, how do I approach the conversation with my new boyf? I've never been particularly vocal about sex and the ins and outs with boyfriends, although I do have a high sex drive...

[p3375]

My only thought is: ENJOY IT!!!
Oh, an read Cat's most recent blog. It seems a better response here..
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[Austin Richards]

There have been many threads regarding individuals not being lubricated enough. My issue is just the opposite. Are there women out there whose vagina is too wet? If so, how long have you had this issue? I would really like to know if this normal. Of course, my significant other feels there is no problem at all, If you know what I mean.

I gotta say that my girlfriend had this "problem" in high school all the way into her 20's (and I assume later) and it is the HOTTEST! thing in the world for a man!

Ladies, Get down on your knees and thank God every night that you have this "problem."

Yes, she presented it the same way to me that some of you are saying.... like it's a problem. In fact her first visit to the gynecologist scared her that she would get wet so she decided to go to a female. And guess what... she got wet and was terrible embarrassed. I'm sure it was simply because she was afraid she was going to get wet.

It took her a long time to realize that "I" wasn't just kinky, but that EVERY man loves it... the more wet the better.

But girls, you really need to get a clue and use this to your advantage. Make him think the only reason it happens to you is because you think he is so hot. And of course, just like an orgasm he will want to know if he gave it to you best, so be sure to tell him that you never ever remember getting that wet around any other man.

Let me tell you what I hear in my ears when you say you get "too" wet. I hear, "I have 'too' much money so I am unhappy. "

I would have said this was an unnecessary thread, except I know how my girlfriend thought it was something bad or weird. If your guy doesn't like a slip-n-slide then he needs to sign up for a, "I'm probably gay" class.

[Patatrac]

I just love this thread. I too am "too wet" but have had absolutely no complaints - my previous lovers have been so flattered at the thought that they have that affect on me! Seriously though I find that if you can be with a man that is happy to make sure that you are fully satisfied - oral and many different positions before he eventually climaxes the wetness is not really an issue. My current lover jokes that he gets a shower everytime we are together - and that's good enough for me I just want to say that as a woman in my forties I am grateful for this wetness as I have heard that the opposite is worse - so have fun and enjoy!

[Hyarion]

Hi I signed up just to reply to this thread,

I've been thinking about this issue for a while now (I'm a guy, 24), and have drawn the following distinctions: there are two aspects to "being too wet". The first is when woman "leak" their wetness, the second is when woman do not leak but are simply overlubricated internally (of course, you may be both).

I have come to find (unfortunately) that sex is more pleasurable with friction, (not too much mind you, that hurts both girls and guys, but just a little). However, with my current girlfriend, who is perfect in every way, this is not the case: she becomes extremely lubricated internally, and I hardly feel anything after a while, and the orgasms I have are very small... as if I can't feel them. I don't know if she feels the same way, and I don't want to bring it up just yet.

I have noticed that (excuse the following graphic descriptions) woman who become very lubricated enjoy sex that is fast, hard, and sometimes deep. Woman who only become moderately lubricated generally like slower, gentler sex (and can feel when a man comes), and I think this is exactly because the first really do feel less than the second. This sucks because I like slow, gentle sex, and I notice the drop in excitement in my girlfriend when I slow down, and in turn this makes me unhappy...

But one last point: although the sex with less lubricated woman was more intense, and more to my liking, I see psychological similarities, and draw the correlation that those who overlubricate are in fact at ease with their sexuality and in general are healthy individuals.

Double edged issue indeed.

[Hyarion]

Oh, and this has nothing to do with the size of a man's penis I think. I am definitely large (2 meters tall after all), and my girlfriend is very small. She is just so lubricated that all I feel is pressure, no friction at all.

I wish there were a way to remedy this, but it doesn't seem likely...

[A Dying Breed]

Oh, and this has nothing to do with the size of a man's penis I think. I am definitely large (2 meters tall after all), and my girlfriend is very small. She is just so lubricated that all I feel is pressure, no friction at all.

I wish there were a way to remedy this, but it doesn't seem likely...

Height has nothing to do with penis size. Also, there are certain types of condoms that do intensify friction, so you could look into those. Kegel exercises also improve the intensity of orgasms, and if you masturbate frequently (especially to pornography) you will definitely experience less powerful orgasms.

This is by no means a problem, but I can understand if women get scared of this. It's pretty much one step below female ejaculation (which is also not a bad thing)