[rcoreyus]

I don't have much to say about the taste issue. Maybe just be careful to be really clean first.

I can say from experience that you tongue can get tired - really tired from performing oral sex. I've had mine go from tired to aching, to the point where I really couldn't continue. (guess I need more exercise). Often my tongue is somewhat aching the next day. It may be that he just can't keep doing it for that long.

In the same way that men often don't under stand how difficult it can be to give head, some women don't understand how difficult it can be to go down on a woman.

I very much enjoy giving my wife oral, but sometimes after a while the muscles just aren't up to it anymore.

[SorridLives]

i've never heard of a guy who doesn't like to go down on a girl....has anyone? it really upsets me to think that he just doesn't want to and never will.

Sure. I have heard some guys don't like it. He wouldn't be alone, from what I have heard. Personally, I have known guys who want to be "in the mood" to do it and don't want to do it every time they have intercourse. On the other hand, that is the only way some women can have an orgasm.
It seems everything can be a problem, especially if you are sort of mismatched. Your guy may have just had a tired tongue.
As for the odors that might occur due to certain foods....I don't think they could last that long. I'd only be guessing...but I'd say 24-48 hours, at the longest. Did you google it? Not sure what would show up on a search....

[MichRN]

Thanks to everyone for all of their kind support! This forum is great! I did try to look up the "taste" issue on google and I haven't found anything.....

[Rozz]

i've never heard of a guy who doesn't like to go down on a girl....has anyone? it really upsets me to think that he just doesn't want to and never will.

Guys here say they'd rather finger a girl them eat them out. I hear it all the time its brought up. Its quite sadening.

[damd]

What guy would rather finger than eat-out? The only thing that would make me say no or bauk would be the knowledge that she is not fresh.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Guys here say they'd rather finger a girl them eat them out. I hear it all the time its brought up. Its quite sadening.

How far back are you looking?

Any men on this Forum past few months, have stated opposite, or not really mentioned fingering at all?

Perhaps your looking at posts in 2007, 2006??

Only a few men here

To the threader... You mentioned earlier in your posts, that you were starting to feel and think that perphaps, he was losing his erection whilst spending 20 minutes with you and that this could be the real cause...

Quite possibly a fact.

Did you sit down and discuss this at all with him?

CW

[missyann]

You said you used a feminine wipe before he went down on you. I use to use those before seeing my boyfriend until he once told me that something about the chemicals from the wipe numbs his tongue and it distracts him. He didn't know I had been using the wipes for a while and so he didn't know how to tell me that. You may consider asking your boyfriend if that's the problem. He was pretty vague by telling you it was something about 'the way you tasted'. That makes it sound like it wasn't necessarily the taste...but something else. I don't know. Just a thought.

[talk time]

Aparently the taste changes when you do cum so maybe being on the verge made the taste change or maybe he is feeling strange about you cumming while he is down there.

It sounds more like an excuse to me.

If if it is about it taking too long for him and he is hanging out for some action himself, maybe he could get an orgasm out of the way first and then finish pleasuring you, this way you might find he is all hot and ready for round two by the time your satisfied which could prolong the experience for both of you.

tt

[classichb]

So true, chandler, so true.

[Fire(m)]

A few thoughts for you.

1) 20 minutes is NOTHING. Are you kidding me? 20 minutes of watching your lady react to every single flick of your tongue? 20 minutes awaiting a moment of shangri la that will blow her mind? I don't personally care if it takes 2 hours. I have gone down on my lady many times and had a tired tongue, a sore neck, etc., but I don't stop. I don't care, the ONLY goal is for her to have a BLAST (literally) and it's not about how much time it takes. Let her rub out the sore muscle later. If my tongue gets sore, then I have something GREAT to remind me of how much fun we had. I don't believe that time was a problem here.

2) Taste: Food goes through you in an instant. Ever eat asparagus? If you haven't, try it then go pee immediately after you eat it. Your urine will be UN-BELIEVABLE. It will smell to high heaven in just a few minutes. SO...food definitely could have a part in your taste. This has some validity until I shoot it down in the next point.

3) If he could stand how you smelled or tasted for 20 minutes while you got "real close" then why couldn't he stand it for another 45 seconds? I'm not trying to be a jerk, but I just don't buy it. I don't buy it ONE BIT! Personally, I think that deserves payback. That's just cruel in my mind.

4) I am sorry to say it, but I think that your guy is having problems over the fact that he can only get you off by oral and you can get yourself off many other ways. If I'm right, and he stopped going downtown on you because of that, he really picked a bad way to protest. Think about it. Why would he want to mess with the ONLY way he can get you off? The only answer I can think of is that he's being a crybaby. Is that possible?

5) I'm a guy. Several times in the past I've failed to be able to achieve an "O". No biggie. I pretty much can tell when it just isn't happening for me. Undoubtedly it's the same situation for women. Y'all can tell if it's just not happening for you. I'm still having a hard time getting over the fact that you're COMMUNICATING to him that you're about to get off and he stops. WTF?!?! Can I type that here?

To summarize, I think the problem with your guy is between his ears and I think he picked a particularly bad way to bring this problem to light. I hope you can work through this with him. I do understand guys, so if I can be of any assistance to you in resolving this or you need a sounding board to bounce some idea off, please just holler.

Cheers.