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Chandlers Wish a while back also makes a good point about being "open" to your "O" and letting yourself go. If there is any one thing that you can do to help yourself in this it would be to fully let youself get into it. Think about this. Is there anything that would be keeping you from throwing your mind, heart, body, and soul in to the sex with your b/f? If so, then try to work through that, so you can totally give yourself up to what's taking place. Also, I'd rather go downtown than finger ANY DAY! In fact, I like going down very nearly as much as I like intercourse.

Cheers.

[mmg_8434]

hmm thats kinda on his part because on AVERAGE it takes a woman 20 mintues to have an orgasm..he should be glad it only took that long...
but my boyfriend says that i taste differnt every once in a hwile too, but being fresh out of the shower should prevent any weird tastes...
im sure it does have to do with where you are in your monthly cycle...

[fellowsquare]

i've never heard of a guy who doesn't like to go down on a girl....has anyone? it really upsets me to think that he just doesn't want to and never will.

There are tons of guys who don't like to go down on women. Personally, I enjoy it. I think its mostly because of a "macho" thing, that they feel they don't need to be going down on women, but it's not very uncommon. I will say that being down there will lock up the jaw a little. It's not for everyone. he should be a little more honest.

My ex never really tasted that great either, i kind of just went for it because I enjoyed it and she got pleasure from it.

My current GF does have a distict smell and tase to her, its not the most pleasant but for some reason it turns me on and I am attracted to it.. almost like a phermon. I have no idea, all i know is that she has a distinct smell to her and i think of sex when i smell her. It mostly comes off of her skin, its a huge turn on sub-consciously.

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i will place my bet that the food, and the timing of your period are the factors like so many said.
i like what CW wrote, she makes great sence with her reply.
i love to go down on a woman. when i do it gets me very excited to hear her moan, have her body shiver and move while i do my work. some have taken a long time and some haven't, while yes some didnt even get there.
one of the replies was to shower before hand. take a shower together. and then do things in the shower and take it tothe bedroom.
i remember this one girl i dated years ago. she ate garlic, alot of it. she didnt just have an order down there she also had one throughout her whole body. needless to say south of the border was not a trip taken often.
i give your b/f credit for speaking about it. many might not know how to talk about that to who they date. so be glad he did even it hurt. if you find out the reason, either it be timing, food, or whatever it may be, you will then know how to fix the problem and it better for both of you.

[Livelaughlove]

I'm not sure if this is an issue any more because the last time the O.P posted was in June.

People already mentioned the hygiene issue and how to take care of it.

There are only three real problems that come to mind when giving women oral.

1. You can get lock jaw,
2. on some occasions you can't breathe,
3. however the only painful thing that i can think of is the bridge between your tongue and jaw can get really sore and even painful from the constant scrapping of it against your teeth.

If your close to orgasm I really dont see why your man stopped. I guess it just depends on your lovers enthusiasm with pleasing you. If he sees it as a chore then he will quit at the first sign of pain, however if its a man that sees your satisfaction as more of a priority then his own then he will continue through the pain..

Hope this helps.

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