[dawn2]

nope definately not into women!! lol doen the therapy route and that was a waste of time she had us doing sensate focus which i hated it gave me panick atacks but she never listened to us tell ing her that so after doing the sensate for 6 months and never making any progress we stopped going

[Guest]

I don't know, girl. Just hang in there with your husband he sounds like a good guy.

[dawn2]

yes he is, but after hanging in there for27 yrs of being together then just how long would you say was reasonable to feel something from having sex with him?

[Guest]

Sounds like it could be hormonal. Have you been to a medical doctor.

[dawn2]

yes i have had all the tests they can think of and they all come back normal whatever that might be? however they did try giving me testosterone implants for 9 months an d i had to ask in the end what it was meant to do

[Guest]

Testosterone is what gives you a sex drive. Men have a whole lot more than women, but we have some. Otherwise there would be no desire for sex whatsoever.

[dawn2]

well it never made a single bit of difference at all to me, other than having 3 cuts and now got scarring on my tumy from the implants

[Guest]

Don't know what to tell you. I just know that for me personally psychology is the biggest part of it. I really enjoy looking at handsome men. It makes me feel good to look at them. Cause I know they've got what I don't. And what they've got makes me feel good. Then my imagination starts to wonder what they would look like naked and I feel sexually aroused. That's all I know.

[dawn2]

as i said i dont know what feeling aroused actually is, til 4 yrs back i never even knew i was meant to feel anything and as for owning a clit!! well i had never even heard of it nevermind felt anything from mine, and thats 3 kids later and married 25 yrs.

[Guest]

keep trying.