[SorridLives]

Dam..n... i'm blushing......

Yeah, but remember something, their "old dream girl" is exactly that.. OLD.. The real dream girl when she got exposed is real.. before, it was just a dream of stup.id expectations, then he woke up

LOL...Yes, indeed.

[owlhunter]

I'm male. Ladies, it is the whole package. Yes when we men are young we may be attractive to "pretty"women but you quickly learn that it is what is inside (no funny connotations here) the woman that matters far more. Tall, short, thin, fat, big boobs, little boobs, who cares.

What turns me on is the woman herself. Her personality, sense of humour, intelligence. Ladies, be yourself. If the guy does not like that, then move on and find one that does.

You cannot spend your whole life pretending to be what some guy wants. Be yourself. Trust in yourself. Laugh at yourself. Enjoy life. Be kind. Be honest.

If the guy does not like what he finds when you do that, there is no way the relationship will work in the long run. I spent many years trying to be what I thought others wanted me to be. Boy is that tiring. And I was amazed when I found out (in my late 50's) that people actually like the "real" me. My life has been completely different since then. And have my relationships with women.

Do I look back and wish i had had a relationship with (I don't know what)? Not any more than I wish I had done other things differently in my life.

If a guy is past 40 and still wishes her had dated "a tall blond with big boobs" well, tell him to grow up, give him the phone number of someone you don't like, and move on.

Please ladies, be yourselves.