[Fire(m)]

I LOVE to give, but never receive. I would like to receive, but that's not in the cards for me. All said, I'm ok with that. I REALLY LOVE to give, and that is much more important to me than it would be for me to receive anyway because I really enjoy giving her that pleasure.
Cheers.

[Richard S]

Hey guys!

Just a query (and poll) for you all. I absolutely love giving men bj's, in fact sometimes I'd be quite happy to sit there licking and sucking all night without receiving anything in return, I just buzz off it that much!

Thing is though, I don't enjoy receiving oral myself. Happy to give it but getting it makes me squeamish. I just can't see how any man could find that pleasureable!

Does anyone else feel the same or am I just a freak?

Well, for men, sex is in large part about power. We validate our manhood by getting you to surrender. The less enlightened man sees a woman as a place to put his thing, therefore it's about getting her to let him do that. The more enlightened man sees a woman as a puzzle to be unlocked. The fact that you've never enjoyed receiving oral is a sign that you've never been with a truly sensitive lover.

Anyway, to answer your question, a lot of men get off on the way a woman surrenders to the pleasure that comes from good cunnilingus. I'm not one to brag but I've gotten my share of compliments. The highest one is when a woman tells me that I've helped her to open up and feel better about her own body. Actually they've never come out and told me that in so many words. It's just an unspoken understanding that comes out in other ways, like one woman who told me, "I wish every man were like you."

But, like I said, I'm not one to brag.

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Fire(m)
I REALLY LOVE to give, and that is much more important to me than it would be for me to receive anyway because I really enjoy giving her that pleasure.

I think that it's a great attitude, off course it would be better to receive. Life is a 50/50 street. But too few men truly feel this way. It is more of a "chore", in order to receive. I off course am not talking about committed relationships that have developed through understanding of each other and respect, over time, but in general.

My ex-husband for example was the classic, yeah right just to get it, done now...
7 years of that can "almost" put a woman of sex for life trust me.

RichardS
The highest one is when a woman tells me that I've helped her to open up and feel better about her own body.

It's no secret that i communicated with a man from England for 6 months and eventually met. I have to say, that, that is what he was capable of doing and i for one will be eternally grateful, even if he was "playing", well? Who really knows.

That experience opened a lot of doors for me pertaining to life in it's fullest whilst also bought me back to before marriage and what it was like then, kind of rekindled my thoughts " It's not me it's you", ...

[chippy]

Ok so....most of us agree that oral is good. However...do people prefer when the area is shaved or not shaved?

[Davey]

I can really get into when she's shaved. You don't have the shave your entire pubic region just around the labia etc. Have as much on your pubic bone as you want.

[owlhunter]

I've never given oral to a shaven woman so can't say.
I prefer the natural look, (regardless of whether the curtains match the drapes) and have absolutely no problem performing oral on a unshaven woman.

Besies, the parts you touch don't have hair on them anyway!!

[Kalashnikitty]

I have to admit, I prefer it when my husband is shaved as not only do I play with the penis, but the balls too. I never imagined it would be pleasurable for him until he suggested it. I prefer to always keep myself shaved. I know what it's like to have hair in my mouth and I can't stand it so I won't make him put up with it. As far as giving and receiving, I much prefer to give. It's a self conscious thing though. Hated my body for a long time cause I've got some extra meat but hey, more of me to love. My husband also took a lot of time to learn how to give right. He even bought videos that taught how to give good oral. That was before I met him though. I never enjoyed receiving till he convinced me to allow it. Can't look back now!! I don't care much for 69 though. Hard to concentrate and makes my arm tired.

[Jade83]

Getting it is wonderful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not to big at giving it though.