[Pimsticks]

Hey guys!

Just a query (and poll) for you all. I absolutely love giving men bj's, in fact sometimes I'd be quite happy to sit there licking and sucking all night without receiving anything in return, I just buzz off it that much!

Thing is though, I don't enjoy receiving oral myself. Happy to give it but getting it makes me squeamish. I just can't see how any man could find that pleasureable!

Does anyone else feel the same or am I just a freak?

[Fallen1]

I don't see why you would love giving oral but you don't understand why a guy wouldn't. To me one is the same as the other. I can however see why a guy would be apprehensive about it if his girl didn't shave and was all natural.

I love both giving and receiving .... although I admit I am quite persistent that I am clean before I will "allow" him to give to me.

[owlhunter]

I enjoy giving women oral. And I prefer women who do not shave.

Why do I enjoy doing it? Why do I like chocolate? I really enjoy bring pleasure to my partner. If whatever I'm doing does not bring her pleasure then i see no point in doing it.

Try to relax with your partner and see if you can let yourself enjoy it. You MUST give him some directions. Do you want him to lap like a dog, or go as slowly and getly as possible? He has no way of knowing. And anything he may have seen in a porn movie is probably totally WRONG.

The way my lady likes oral would be completely boring if it were filmed. You can barely see any movement. but that is what she likes. Just soft little teasing on here c*** with my tongue. Boring to watch but she really likes it.

[Guest]

oral sex is the best!!!!! i love giving and receiving...

[Sweet Lady]

Pimsticks - Try relaxing with him between your legs. Maybe you are squeamish because of the higher level of pleasure and can't take it. Relax and take it in, it can and is glorious ^_^!!!! Open up girl and let him pleasure you (especially if he really wants to).

Once you are comfortable, do the 69. You can both orgasm just from giving each other oral in the 69.

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Funter - not all problems are solved by watching porn. Just letting you know as I see all your responses refer to it so far. Try helping in other ways.

[Guest]

Hi,

New and female. I find this interesting.

Pimsticks : I would say one needs to be able to give AND receive in life. I love giving BJ but only on gays who return the favour! I love to receive oral, well... if it is well done at least.


Fallen1 : why would a guy not like to give oral on a non-shaved lady, women used to not shave, I am close to 50 and have never shaved. I never realised that would withold men from giving oral! Hmmm.... interesting!


Owlhunter : should a guy not give instructions as well to his lady on how the oral must be performed or is a BJ a BJ?

Have fun

Pfff.... I meant I love to give BJ on guys NOT on gays of course!!!

[Sweetness182]

Recieving is the bomb!!!
I can't get enough.
I don't mind giving either.

[maz33]

Thing is though, I don't enjoy receiving oral myself. Happy to give it but getting it makes me squeamish. I just can't see how any man could find that pleasureable!

Never mind if he finds it pleasurable, if you relax, and allow yourself the pleasure you will LOVE IT!!!

[shweedart]

I think i love everything about oral sex

giving it, getting it, same time....bring it on

[owlhunter]

Owlhunter : should a guy not give instructions as well to his lady on how the oral must be performed or is a BJ a BJ?

Absolutely. Communication is absolutely necessary, in all things sexual with a partner. I have had very few BJs in my life. Current partner is first one who has activly participated. She is also first partner I have ever been open with about my wants, needs desires, etc. always afraid before to express my desires for fear my partner would think I was weird/sick, etc.

I actually get more pleasure from HJ. Secret is good lub. You need the silicon based lubs, they never go dry. And it takes communications for her to know how I like it. She has no way of knowing what feels good. Same for other things we do together. Goes both ways. Without communication your partner is flying blind. And what one partner may like another may not, so it is very individual.