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  • talk time
    Senior Member
    • Jun 2008
    • 134

    This is not something I would try but each to there own. I don't mind a it of a spank, gouging my nails down his back or even light wipping, but thats just me.

    Just have fun but keep it safe. Have a code word or non verbal signal to let each other know that is enough.


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    • raspberrylefty
      Junior Member
      • Jul 2008
      • 8

      my boyfriend does this and i asked him why and he said it gives him better leverage... so i guess he doesnt do it so much for the choking aspect but the pleasure/? but he is into the biting hair pulling ruff kinda sex...

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      • sunnycapecod143
        Junior Member
        • Jul 2008
        • 2

        choking, like so many other things in the bed room, if done right can be very hot. I love it. We have face to face with eye contact works great. The ides is not for him to choke you to death. start slow, verbalize if it is too much. I can actually achieve the same feeling from very deep quick breaths. It is almost like hyperventilating.

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