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    Choking

    is there anyone else out there that enjoys it as much as i do. my boyfriend and i have played around with it and we are very careful. would like to know if anyone else has tried it...yes i know to some its very weird or crazy....but it actually is very exciting and feels good.
  • Fallen1
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 1937

    My boyfriend does it from time to time. He really isn't choking as he just puts his hand around my neck.

    Be sure you have a "safe" word or signal as there is always a chance of things getting out of hand in the heat of the moment.

    We had a thread on this some time back. Might want to search for it and read the replies.
    There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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    • rcoreyus
      Veteran Member
      • Sep 2007
      • 4369

      Its not that unusual - but be very careful. Accidents are rare, but they can happen.

      Question - is smothering safer?

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      • Fallen1
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2007
        • 1937

        Originally posted by rcoreyus
        Question - is smothering safer?
        Just thinking about it I would have to say no. At least with the choking you are able to have eye contact. To me eye contact is important with this as your eyes can show your partner fear/pain etc. if God forbids it gets out of hand and goes to far.
        There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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        • owlhunter
          Senior Member
          • Jul 2008
          • 101

          Hmmm. Very interesting. I know my lady would never want to try. She goes nuts if anything touches her throat. But I might be willing to have a go at her trying it on me.

          Please explain more about sensation, feelings, etc. Am interested to learn more.

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          • CHANDLERS WISH
            • Mar 2008
            • 22440

            Originally posted by owlhunter
            Hmmm. Very interesting. I know my lady would never want to try. She goes nuts if anything touches her throat. But I might be willing to have a go at her trying it on me.

            Please explain more about sensation, feelings, etc. Am interested to learn more.
            Fallen1
            We had a thread on this some time back. Might want to search for it and read the replies.

            .................................
            CW
            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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            • Fallen1
              Veteran Member
              • Oct 2007
              • 1937

              Originally posted by owlhunter
              Please explain more about sensation, feelings, etc. Am interested to learn more.
              Really does nothing for me other than the fact that he gets pleasure from it.

              He doesn't really choke me, I guess you could say it's more of the illusion (to him) of choking as he only puts his hand firmly around my throat and doesn't really apply any pressure to speak of. He's even asked if he's hurt me and stated after I've answered that it is not his intent to do so.
              There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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              • anonymouswhitefemale
                Veteran Member
                • Sep 2007
                • 1343

                My ex liked it, so I indulged her a couple of times... I quite like the psychological aspect of it, but I was uncomfortable with actual strangulation... It does strike me as quite possibly dangerous, and worry overcomes when you see the colour of someones face changing.

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                • Guest

                  It's a good way to get killed. I would never attempt it.

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                  • owlhunter
                    Senior Member
                    • Jul 2008
                    • 101

                    I'll search for previous threads more carefully next time. sorry ladies.

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