[shweedart]

haha sounds promising...hmm what to tie him with

[rcoreyus]

A nicer version of the above is to tie him up, give him oral until he is ...almost... finished. The stop and tell him you'll finish him after he finishes you - then straddle his face. If he starts to loose interest, get him all excited again.

[Hystorm]

Drop him like a freeking brick!!

Guys like this me off to no end!!

[SinisterUrge]

haha sounds promising...hmm what to tie him with

You can buy 100' of cotton clothesline at Wal*Mart for like $5

If you're feeling spendy you can get padded nylon & velcro restraints from Sportsheets® (about $20)or KinkLab® (about $40). Padded nylon doesn't sound like much but I assure you they're fairly unbreakable (but can be cut with scissors if an emergency pops-up).

If you have a thing for leather and buckles a pair of cuffs will cost anything from $20 - $200 depending on what options you want or which company you're buying from

I'd advise against police-style metal handcuffs because they can cut into the wrist (potential scars, nerve damage, and bloody pillowcases) if he starts struggling against the restraints.

If you don't live near a Wal*Mart or a well-stocked sextoy store you can order pretty much anything you'll need from Stockroom or ErosBoutique (both dotcoms)

[Joy]

Sinister Urge i almost peed myself laughing when i read your reply good show!!! um extreme but good advice!

for shweetdart if you are young its ok to find someone who wants to be have fun in bed and explore and be a generous lover instead of a selfish lover. This goes for both of you..... sex is not and should not be used as a power struggle between people. Its not something to be manipulated. I don't get it when ppl hold back love and/or sex in a relationship to get their own way.......... i wonder what they are really getting in the end what they think they have won???

if your bf is on meds that could possibly make him a less interested in sex that's a whole different story but if he is just lazy then well do u really want that?