[Ashlee T.]

Lol. This is an awesome thread. And oh how many times I have wondered if there was any way to make good judgement about a mans size without physically finding out for myself (when it's most often too late to turn around and say "WHAT IS THAT!?!? H*** TO THE NO!") lol. I can't figure it out. I mean, with guys...they can at least look at a girl and tell if she's voluptuous (unless she's totally false advertising). Us girls, we can't tell until we go in for the kill.

I think someone said it right previously that it truly depends on what you've had in the past. My last serious relationship, the guy was about 7.5. I loved it. No one has pleased me like that since. My last partner, I was SOOOOOOO attracted to and there was SO much chemistry, but he was very small. All other things considered, he would've been good in bed but there wasn't enough there to do the trick. It was incredibly frustrating.
Now...well the guy I'm dating is a big guy, but I haven't slept with him. I can tell from make out sessions that he's not big...but doesn't necessarily mean he's extremely small either. I'm scared to find out. haha

My friend once said "I might not have a big fire hose, but I can put out a fire" and I responded "But if the fire hose isn't long enough to reach the fire, or not big enough to do anything but squirt out a little water......then you're not putting out ANY fires!!"

[woodgate21]

My girlfriend and i have been together for about six years and i know that she knows that my penis is small,but she has never said it!but before me i know she had slept with alot of men some of which had very large penis' around 8 inchs but she said that the ones with big ones had nothing else going for them and that i was the only man to ever give her an orgasm!!

[SteveninMT]

My friend once said "I might not have a big fire hose, but I can put out a fire" and I responded "But if the fire hose isn't long enough to reach the fire, or not big enough to do anything but squirt out a little water......then you're not putting out ANY fires!!"

By no means do I have a large penis (~4.5" erect and ~4" circumference). I know this for a fact and am quite comfortable with the size of my bits and pieces. However, I've learned to use what I've got to maximize sexual intensity for both my significant other and myself. I may not be long enough to reach the fire, but I can certainly smother it with with other soft, nimble parts of my anatomy!

[commonsense]

Penis with a view

Wow, when I wrote this thread I had no idea it would generate this much interest!
I have come (no pun intended) to this conclusion.

Just like picking a mate, everybody has a penis preference.

There is a penis "mate" for everyone. Everyone doesn't have to have a big one.

Be happy with you penis, there is someone out there that wants it. I think that a girl should discuss her penis preference with the guy before he falls in love with her so that he want get hurt.

Personally, I have to have at least 5.5 inches with decent girth. More is just icing on the cake. LOL

[golden_nemesis]

I have had sex with a total of five men, four of them recent enough to size up. The first one was so long ago and I was so inexperienced, I have very little idea of his relative size, though I don't remember him being particularly large, or particularly skilled for that matter. Only man I've been with who refused to perform oral sex, even when I asked him really sweetly. Didn't even have to ask any of the others, they volunteered.

Of the four more recent men, the first one was also the largest. The foreplay with him was awesome, but he was just too big, and I was just too tight. It was overwhelming and quite painful. I only had sex with him once, so its hard to say if I would have stretched out or gotten used to it. He was a very thick 8 inches. So monster penises, not for me.

Man number 2 was the smallest of the bunch (yeah, he was Asian, go figure, LOL). I didn't measure, but I'd guess around 4 or 4.5 erect and not all that thick. But the sex with him was pretty darn good, because he was attentive, knew what he was doing, and liked to experiment.

Man number 3 was relatively large, but pretty young and inexperienced, the sex there was decent, but nothing to write home about. He was probably 6.5 or so.

My current partner and love is probably somewhere between 5 and 6, depending on the erection (I've encountered a variety of them), and somewhat on the slim side. He has more than enough to make me feel amazing, is incredibly generous as a lover, and gives me more pleasure than I had come to believe anyone could. He is the only man who could make me orgasm consistently, and was able to do so within the first few times we had sex. He also undergoes a pretty remarkable growth from the flaccid penis, as I have seen him look what I'd guess to be about 2 inches.

Take note that the best sex I have had was with the two men who were smallest. I like for my partner not to have to be careful about the depth of penetration, so he can be completely uninhibited. I can get off from penetration with a finger when combined with come clitoral stimulation, so anything more than that is just a nice bonus.

[Hopeless Dork]

My current partner and love is probably somewhere between 5 and 6, depending on the erection (I've encountered a variety of them

Same here. I don't if its just that I pay more attention now than before, but my bf's erections vary a whole lot from session to session and within the session. He's big and satisfies me in each and every state of it, but I am constantly bewildered and amazed at the differences that don't seem to be related to anything we are doing.

I think we talked about this in another thread but I am still puzzled at what they mean?! Like if they get more pleasure when its most erect or if orgasms are not as good when its 90% or less etc. I'd love to know, I'd hate to ask!

[njman2008]

I think we talked about this in another thread but I am still puzzled at what they mean?! Like if they get more pleasure when its most erect or if orgasms are not as good when its 90% or less etc. I'd love to know, I'd hate to ask!

I do notice this from time to time. My erection level depends on a few things. The first and most important thing is how long I have been erect. Most often when I wake up I am erect but I know I have pretty much been erect most of the night, so morning sex, I am less erect. I am most erect when sex is unexpected, random, and/or in a way that I find to be a huge turn on.

Sex is still very enjoyable for me when I am less erect although I know it is the case and always worry about my partner.

I do have to say I enjoy sex more when I am fully erect and maybe that is because I feel my partner may enjoy it more too.

I would just ask and start the conversation by saying, I am pleased either way and I was just curious and making sure its good for you too.

[golden_nemesis]

I do notice this from time to time. My erection level depends on a few things. The first and most important thing is how long I have been erect. Most often when I wake up I am erect but I know I have pretty much been erect most of the night, so morning sex, I am less erect. I am most erect when sex is unexpected, random, and/or in a way that I find to be a huge turn on.

Sex is still very enjoyable for me when I am less erect although I know it is the case and always worry about my partner.

I do have to say I enjoy sex more when I am fully erect and maybe that is because I feel my partner may enjoy it more too.

I would just ask and start the conversation by saying, I am pleased either way and I was just curious and making sure its good for you too.

I have actually found that sex with my partner when he has a slightly softer erection is just as good if not better in some ways than when he is hard as a rock. His penis tends to be more flexible, so we can do more positions, and I get some of the best g-spot stimulation when he is a bit soft.

So I wouldn't really worry about your partner not enjoying herself, just use a softer erection as an excuse to get more creative in bed. :-)

[Still Nobody]

Lol. This is an awesome thread. And oh how many times I have wondered if there was any way to make good judgement about a mans size without physically finding out for myself (when it's most often too late to turn around and say "WHAT IS THAT!?!? H*** TO THE NO!") lol. I can't figure it out. I mean, with guys...they can at least look at a girl and tell if she's voluptuous (unless she's totally false advertising). Us girls, we can't tell until we go in for the kill.
I think someone said it right previously that it truly depends on what you've had in the past. My last serious relationship, the guy was about 7.5. I loved it. No one has pleased me like that since. My last partner, I was SOOOOOOO attracted to and there was SO much chemistry, but he was very small. All other things considered, he would've been good in bed but there wasn't enough there to do the trick. It was incredibly frustrating.
Now...well the guy I'm dating is a big guy, but I haven't slept with him. I can tell from make out sessions that he's not big...but doesn't necessarily mean he's extremely small either. I'm scared to find out. haha

Yeah, haha that's freaking hilarious!
See! This is what I've been worried about for years -- dating a woman who had someone huge in the past, and "what if" I don't measure up.

My friend once said "I might not have a big fire hose, but I can put out a fire" and I responded "But if the fire hose isn't long enough to reach the fire, or not big enough to do anything but squirt out a little water......then you're not putting out ANY fires!!"

I'm glad you're getting such a good laugh from this thread, you must be having the time of your life enjoying this power you have over men.
Women will always have this "penis size" power over men, and men don't have anything equal to that power. You can mention his "small penis" and DESTROY HIM! Heck, you can tell him he has a small penis, and even if he's hung like a horse -- you will still hurt him!
You're one of those woman who make me want to kill myself, because I read stuff like this, and I feel it in my soul, that I will be alone forever.

[njman2008]

She is one woman who has a preference. She doesn't seem like the type to hurt a guy based on his penis. She is just being honest and she seemed to have tried a relationship with someone smaller. We all have preferences in our partner. She is no different and I am happy she is at least honest with people. There are plenty of women out there who either don't care about size or actually want a smaller partner. Again every women is different. I hope your problems aren't deeper than you are describing otherwise you may want to seek professional help. There is no way you are going to get around dating women who may have been with someone bigger. There will always be someone who has a bigger penis, is richer, stronger, faster, etc than you. That's life. Treat women right and the rest will follow.

On a side note, I think maybe Beautiful Disaster hasn't had a lover wih an average penis show her that we can be just as good...would 5.5" be enough for a shot? Just Kidding. Have a good day.