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  • Livelaughlove
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2008
    • 456

    Your insecurities are feeding this question. You can do tons and tons of research, and every girl here can tell you that your penis is perfect, but you will not fully accept it because your insecurity.

    The posters here have told you from a logical standpoint and from experience the advice that you need.

    My advice is work on your yourself and your confidence. and forget about penis size. I'm above average, but i read plenty of to make your longer, thicker. The fact was i was insecure even though when i had sex with women that told me my was the biggest they have had. I didn't believe them because of my insecurities. Now that I'm more confident i really dont even think of penis size anymore.

    There are ways to make your thicker and longer None of them are permanent I dont know if surgery is an option. Unless you have micropenis which is an actual condition(smaller then 2.5in erect look it up on google.) Then i would say work on your confidence, and becoming a better man.

    Even though penis size is important to women, Even if they deny it. What is more important to them is how you make them feel. I'm sure the women here will agree with me. Womens main characteristic they look for in a man is a sense of safety and security. That is not just financial, its also confidence, charisma, and a perceived sense of high self worth.

    Maybe your thinking penis size is such a big deal that your making it your reality. Maybe when your with your women your constantly bringing it up. Which is an obvious sign that it bothers you. If it bothers you then it will bother her.


    True story:

    I was with this girl once and we were about to have sex but for some reason i couldn't get hard. So she asked me what was wrong? I dismissed it and said "Looks like those anti erection pills are really working" She laughed about it and we continued with our previous agenda.

    I was confident in my frame and therefore she accepted it that it was not a big deal. Remember people like to be lead, Women especially.

    If i was to say nervously and shaking "Its not you i promise I'm not usually like this...Im soo sorry... Will you forgive me... Blah blah blah. It would of made her nervous and made me even more nervous leading to a downward spiral.

    Its not a big deal. TRUST ME!

    Hope this helps

    Live laugh and love
    Nice guys don't finish last, weak guys finish last.

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    • Hystorm
      Senior Member
      • Mar 2008
      • 152

      What the Fork do you think you are doing...
      This is a Womens forum....Not "The Sleazy Broads Hangout", but a 'Women's' place. They do not want to see a pic of your freaking schlong! I don't care how large or small it is. Go to the gay boys site and post away. You would prob. get a whole lot better response.

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      • anonymouswhitefemale
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2007
        • 1343

        Hey girls, want to see a picture of my penis?

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        • maz33
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2008
          • 255

          Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale
          Hey girls, want to see a picture of my penis?
          Ooh if only... haha...

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          • anonymouswhitefemale
            Veteran Member
            • Sep 2007
            • 1343

            See Hystorm?

            This is "The Sleazy Broads Hangout".

            Haha.

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            • Richard S
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2008
              • 212

              Once you've gotten a woman into the bedroom for the first time, what they are drawn to the totality of how a man behaves in those intimate encounters. Apart from the physical, there's an aesthetic pleasure in the way a man looks naked, and every woman has her own preference.

              As far as making a woman orgasm vaginally, not all women can do it, and among those who can, most will tell you that girth matters more than width. Most women want a man who will stretch them out a little during intercourse, but small enough so that they can give oral without it turning into a chore.

              The thing women remember is how man wins them over and gives them an outlet for their own passions. That's primary. Secondary is how a man uses his equipment, so that she feels like he, for lack of a better term, gave her a good healthy f*ck in return for her surrender to his charms.

              Third, like I said, is the overall sense of aesthetics, just as you'll look at some woman and say she has nice breasts or nice legs, a woman will look at a man and say he has a nice c*ck.

              The physical size of the equipment is somewhere down around fourth place.

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              • WildChild
                Banned
                • Sep 2008
                • 14142

                Richard you have stated it very well. It more about how a man makes a woman feel when she is with him than anything else. The questions of girth is really more of a matter of the woman's muscle tone too. If she uses a resistance device to tighten her vaginal muscles a man's size is less of an issue than if she a bit "loose" due to child bearing or declining muscle tone over time.

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                • shweedart
                  Veteran Member
                  • Feb 2008
                  • 679

                  Unless its a Guinness world record penis of 1inch then I really don't think size matters at all! The G-spot is about 2 inches in, a lot of women can't orgasm through intercourse alone so thats not a big deal anyhow! I'm hoping you know the clitoris is on the outside?! so you don't need a big one for that.
                  Id say 6.5 is the perfect length really

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                  • shweedart
                    Veteran Member
                    • Feb 2008
                    • 679

                    Plus for men with small ones, there are plenty of positions for deeper penetration! So we can't really complain.

                    You gentlemen tell us to stop being paranoid about our bodies, its time you took your own advice my dears!

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