[Jimbeau]

You apply just a little pressure and stroke back and forth (like you're doing a "come here" motion with your fingers).

Okay I just added that one to your bag of "tips and tricks" in my ultimate fantasy.

[kristalyn_04]

Okay I just added that one to your bag of "tips and tricks" in my ultimate fantasy.

Lol... uhm... well, thanks, I'm flattered.

[Guest]

Anyone besides WC know/realize that there are as many, if not more, nerve endings in and around the anus as there are in and around the clit?

I too, find it interesting that people can engage in the ultimate act of intimacy with each other...sex...yet not be able to talk about other things/topics.

Analingus is amazing and can be a fabulous extension of your foreplay/love making.

As for massaging the prostate, it's similar to the man massaging your G-spot and the technique is very similar. A "come here" motion used with one finger being drawn towards his scrotum and testicles. Just as he does the same or similar motion when massaging your G-spot by drawing towards your pubic bone.

The prostate can also be stimulated by applying pressure to the middle of the Perineum (the space between the end of his scrotum and his anus. It won't get as much stimulation as accessing it directly, but it's not bad either...

My SO and I engage in anal play, not including penetration with my penis, on a regular basis and enjoy it.

"Don't knock it until you've tried it" or "Nothing ventured, nothing gained"

[LanaBear]

Anyone besides WC know/realize that there are as many, if not more, nerve endings in and around the anus as there are in and around the clit?

Absolutely and that is why the sensation is AMAZING! Obviously if done right.

[Jimbeau]

Absolutely and that is why the sensation is AMAZING! Obviously if done right.

Gotta wonder though what the evolutionary purpose of that was.

[rcoreyus]

Try to find out what he would like: Does he want loving and gentle? Does he want to be dominated (be gentle, but "pretend" to be forceful) .

[punchdrunkloved]

I think I would go for gentle in the beginning and then see where it leads from there. Just like if your on the receiving end of anal sex, take it slow to begin, relax and the rest will just happen. He will in one way or another let you know what he wants

[Chas]

My wife and I both enjoy analingous (sp?) while masturbating--me with my hand and her with her Hitachi Magic Wand (not at the same time obviously). Absolutely nothing makes me come faster. I also enjoy anal penetration with her finger while she tickles my balls and nearby regions with the fingernails of her other hand.

Quick suggestion: If you like anal penetration, it is vitally necessary to clean out your lower bowel before asking your lover to penetrate you -- you really don't want any nasty surprises. I know lots of people prefer to use an enema for this purpose, but my preferred method is to get in the tub on my knees facing away from the faucet. I then lean back until the water is running down my backside. In that position, I penetrate myself with my index finger and manually clean out the lower bowel with my finger, inserting it and moving it around to retrieve any remaining fecal matter. It may sound gross but it works, and it's not as gross as your lover discovery said fecal matter, freaking out, and totally ruining the moment and then refusing to ever try it again. I then wash good with a scented bath gel which works well to remove any foul odor.

Enjoy!

[rissy_1981]

I have come to realise that my guy is interested in anal pleasure but I do not know to what exstent or how to incorporate it in the foreplay.I know asking is the simplest way but I kinda wanted it to be a pleasant suprise.Any tips for a gal who's a beginner at this?

... I did it first was so shy for me to do it to my man after now I love to do it ones that you shame go it's a pleasure for you and your man 😉

[bubba29]

ladies and gentlemen....prostate pleasure takes things to a whole other level for men. get a good small g spot toy and move that around till your man says you found the spot (use a lot of lube of course). a BJ while he thrusts it in and out is incredible (hard for partner to do both effectively). be aware though, there will be more cum than usual.