For women that have experiece with using a vibrator and had sex with a penis which give you more pleasure?
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Vibrators or Penis for womens pleasure?
I have not yet had sex with my boyfriend since I want to take it slow. However I LOVE my Rabbit and other vibrating sex toys. I am worried that when I experience a real penis (my boyfriends) it will be a physical let down in terms of pleasure.
For women that have experiece with using a vibrator and had sex with a penis which give you more pleasure?17Penis100.00%17Vibrator0.00%0 -
Physically, a vibrator feels better. But sex is more than just a physical experience. And I'm not talking about loving somebody. It's just an incredible,experience with another human being.Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin) -
Does the actual penis feel better physically than the vibe?For me, no doubt, a REAL penis feels the best. Sure, a vibrator gets me off, but nothing feels like actually having sex with an actual penis. Like sp said, having another warm body next to you, helping get you off, being with a human being is all around an incredible experience.Comment
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Since I was born with the first one, that is the one I'll stick with.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Vibrators cant hug and kiss and touch you gently, they are a mechanical toy, at the end of the day a person is a different kind of intimacy, but you can always have both at the same time. I know they do mini rabbits (was in ann summers last week) , maybe you can incoperate it with your partner? Best of both.
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Overall, a penis (including what it's attached to) feels better than a vibrator.
Take each part as it is, both feel good and can "get you off."
BUT a penis is attached to a body, which adds even more pleasurable feelings physically (in addition to emotional, but it seems you're focused more on just physical).Comment
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It all depends on how they both are used. You know how to use the vibrator in a matter that it will satisfy you. There are guys that do and do not know how to effectively pleasure. In a good relatinship you should be able to discuss anything incuding sex. Therefore, if there is something you think he could do to make it more pleasurable for you TELL HIM! Do not be shy, you could miss out. Just remember guys do not have what we do so they have no way of knowing what gets us individually 'ticking' so let him know. Plus I would make him do some 'work' before time, it makes it feel a lot better since it helps to lube you up. Not trying to be gross but fingers and mouths can help do the trick.Comment
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