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  • kathyn
    Member
    • Jun 2012
    • 38

    Vibrators or Penis for womens pleasure?

    I have not yet had sex with my boyfriend since I want to take it slow. However I LOVE my Rabbit and other vibrating sex toys. I am worried that when I experience a real penis (my boyfriends) it will be a physical let down in terms of pleasure.

    For women that have experiece with using a vibrator and had sex with a penis which give you more pleasure?
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  • DreamP346
    • Oct 2011
    • 2053

    Physically, a vibrator feels better. But sex is more than just a physical experience. And I'm not talking about loving somebody. It's just an incredible,experience with another human being.
    Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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    • LanaBear
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 8373

      For me, no doubt, a REAL penis feels the best. Sure, a vibrator gets me off, but nothing feels like actually having sex with an actual penis. Like sp said, having another warm body next to you, helping get you off, being with a human being is all around an incredible experience.

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      • kathyn
        Member
        • Jun 2012
        • 38

        Originally posted by LanaBear
        For me, no doubt, a REAL penis feels the best. Sure, a vibrator gets me off, but nothing feels like actually having sex with an actual penis. Like sp said, having another warm body next to you, helping get you off, being with a human being is all around an incredible experience.
        Does the actual penis feel better physically than the vibe?

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        • jns
          Assistant Admin
          • Mar 2010
          • 8398

          Since I was born with the first one, that is the one I'll stick with.
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          • Whispa
            Member
            • Jun 2012
            • 17

            Vibrators cant hug and kiss and touch you gently, they are a mechanical toy, at the end of the day a person is a different kind of intimacy, but you can always have both at the same time. I know they do mini rabbits (was in ann summers last week) , maybe you can incoperate it with your partner? Best of both.
            Never judge on face value, never assume someone is ok, because to you they look it. Enjoy life and what you have, don't take it for granted, not everyone is as lucky as you.

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            • LanaBear
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2009
              • 8373

              Originally posted by kathyn
              Does the actual penis feel better physically than the vibe?
              In my opinion, yes, without a doubt.

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              • Kristah
                Member
                • Jun 2012
                • 10

                Originally posted by kathyn
                Does the actual penis feel better physically than the vibe?
                You can always she a penis ring that has a vibrator on it. You dont have to lose the toys when you have sex, you can always have your bf help you use them on yourself and buy stuff for him to use with you. But yes real sex is a lot better, your not alone.

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                • avvie_88
                  Member
                  • May 2012
                  • 42

                  Overall, a penis (including what it's attached to) feels better than a vibrator.
                  Take each part as it is, both feel good and can "get you off."
                  BUT a penis is attached to a body, which adds even more pleasurable feelings physically (in addition to emotional, but it seems you're focused more on just physical).

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                  • Jessica.Grim4
                    Junior Member
                    • Jun 2012
                    • 6

                    It all depends on how they both are used. You know how to use the vibrator in a matter that it will satisfy you. There are guys that do and do not know how to effectively pleasure. In a good relatinship you should be able to discuss anything incuding sex. Therefore, if there is something you think he could do to make it more pleasurable for you TELL HIM! Do not be shy, you could miss out. Just remember guys do not have what we do so they have no way of knowing what gets us individually 'ticking' so let him know. Plus I would make him do some 'work' before time, it makes it feel a lot better since it helps to lube you up. Not trying to be gross but fingers and mouths can help do the trick.

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