[rcoreyus]

Sorry for a slightly more explicit poll than I normally post, but a different post got me interested. How many straight women think that strapon / pegging play is something that they do or would enjoy, vs how many find it disturbing or would be worried that their partners are gay?

For the poll I'm interested in straight women, I expect that the responses would be different from lesbian women or men - and I'm interested in their comments.

For those who do / would like this sort of play, is it a dominance sort of thing?

[DreamP346]

Anything my partner wanted to do and would please him would be something I would want to do. Its not the actions themselves, its the objective that would be what mattered to me.

[Alex HPS]

There are 2 'g spots' inside the male rectum (the prostate and the 'let down nerve plexus' at the top of the rectum). I have to say that I feel a bit sorry for any male who hasn't felt the earth shatter when these particular buttons are pressed. They have no idea how intense it can be. Like not being able to stand up for 30 minutes afterward...

For some people it's about dominance (though not for me - I'm very much the dominant one) and for others it is simply about physical sensation. I am a sensual creature and I like to explore the abilities of my body whatever I'm doing, whether it be in the gym, at the climbing wall or in the sack.

It always makes me chuckle when someone thinks that a man being anally stimulated by a woman must be secretly gay. Maybe he is secretly gay (lots of men are, so I hear), but being pleasured by a woman doesn't make you gay no matter what you get up to.

I admit that I used to be insecure about my liking for prostate stimulation, but as I got older and more sure of myself I realised that it was just pleasure baby! I love women and find all aspects of the traditional male body, voice and personality to be sexually unappealing.

Here's a question for those who think that a man who likes anal stim must be gay:

If a lesbian enjoys being penetrated by a phalic object then is she actually 'straight'?

Of course not...So why would it be different for men?

Alex

[time2discover]

Anal stimulation for women isn't typically "straight" either from a conventional point of view. Doesn't stop it from being quite a pleasure.
So if I get such a feeling from it, as a woman, why can't it be the same for men without labels.

To answer the question, never thought of it or been asked by my man. Pretty sure that I wouldn't mind trying it out if he asked but the first few times would probably be a waste from all the nervous giggling on my part.lol!

[rcoreyus]

I have heard people claim that lesbians who use phallic like objects aren't "really" lesbians. Personally I think its a dumb argument. People should self identify however they want, and if you do want to classify people for some reason, if they enjoy being intimate with someone of the opposite gender then they are straight, if they enjoy being intimate with someone of the same gender then they are gay / lesbian, if they enjoy both, then they are bi (and lucky!)

[Rlbutler89]

After reading this I got a feeling it was about the post of mine...LOL

I'm not against anal play with men . If its what he wanted I would do it. I find a lot of sexual pleasure from pleasuring my partner. I just wonder how you would bring it up to a guy to try it to begin with as far as my friend goes?!

[rcoreyus]

Rlbutler89 - yes it was your post that made me curious. If your friends BF knows that his GF knows the sort of porn he watches, then its its almost certain that he wouldn't mind the suggestion. If he is keeping it secret though, then its much trickier. It all depends on their interaction, and how open they are with each other in the bedroom. If they already have anal sex, then she can (half jokingly) suggest that "maybe next time I should do you". If they ever watch porn together she could wait for that sort of scene. If they buy sex toys together she could let him see her looking at one. If he is quiet or insecure about his sexuality then it could be tricky.

[JackbNimble]

Not sure why so many guys are insecure about anal play particularly with a strap on. My wife and I enjoy it on an ocassional basis as part of our normal sexual activities. We had enjoyed some previous anal play with vibrators and butt plugs so she was not surprised when I suggested and purchased a strap on for her.

We like to include it in light BDSM play with some restraints and gags. She enjoys being in control and the stimulation for me is incredible. It is not something we do too often, but instead save it for a special evening.

[Stillness]

I agree with the person above who said anal play is not unique to any type of sexuality. And I don't think any sexuality between a man and a woman can be strictly homosexual. But a person strapping on a faux penis and ramming a man in the behind is at least homosexual-ish. It a bit beyond simple "anal play." It doesn't interest me. It reminds me of the poster a while back whose man went from wanting her to wear stapons to wanting her to wear a strapon that shot out a semen-like substance (no offense to you if you're reading) after she penetrated him. He might not want to have sex with men, but he sure did want to come as close as possible. It sounded like a slippery slope. It would be like my wife asking me to wear breasts and tuck my penis between my legs to excite her. I would be wondering why she wanted me to be someone else.

I don't think it's necessarily immoral or anything, but I'm a man that wants to be masculine and I want my woman to be feminine.