[JackbNimble]

We ordered a device this weekend. Wife was really into controlling me and said she can't wait to see me locked up. Kind of nervous but it was something I definitely wanted to explore. I think she will be getting into it!!

[Adam.]

I don't get it? Is it something the man wears all the time? What happens if you get a random erection? Painful surely and what about needing to pee?

[JackbNimble]

So the chastity device arrived and my wife had me put it on Sunday afternoon. She secured the lock and we agreed to try it out for comfort overnight. I was surprised that it was actually comfortable and was able to sleep without any issues. In the morning we decided I would keep it on and wear it to work. For safety, she did let me take the spare key in case I experienced any discomfort. Today is day two at work and so far, all is well. It is not noticable under my clothes. Wife told me she will require me to give her the key back tonight and that only she will have access to it from now on.

We are headed to our mountain getaway on Thursday and she has indicated that I will remain locked up through the holiday weekend. That should prove interesting. It will be the longest I have gone without an orgasm (either with or without her help) in quite awhile.

It is been fun and exciting so far and I look forward to the "build up" and the eventual release. I believe the next steps will be to introduce some tease and denial aspects.

[LisaW1991]

Sounds a bit like "Pony Play" which I saw on HBO's Real Sex.... A great show about what REAL people do, and not the made up stuff in porn movies.

[CoolBreeze]

So the chastity device arrived and my wife had me put it on Sunday afternoon. She secured the lock and we agreed to try it out for comfort overnight. I was surprised that it was actually comfortable and was able to sleep without any issues. In the morning we decided I would keep it on and wear it to work. For safety, she did let me take the spare key in case I experienced any discomfort. Today is day two at work and so far, all is well. It is not noticable under my clothes. Wife told me she will require me to give her the key back tonight and that only she will have access to it from now on.

We are headed to our mountain getaway on Thursday and she has indicated that I will remain locked up through the holiday weekend. That should prove interesting. It will be the longest I have gone without an orgasm (either with or without her help) in quite awhile.

It is been fun and exciting so far and I look forward to the "build up" and the eventual release. I believe the next steps will be to introduce some tease and denial aspects.

Can you please be specific what type and model. Kindly keep us posted on the outcome. Thanks

[JackbNimble]

We got the Birdlocked Mini (I am a little below average in size). It fits nicely.I have been locked up for 7 days. We did not end up going to the mountains (too much rain) but stayed around the house. I was kept locked up the entire time except for 10 minutes to remove and clean the device and my penis. Wife had my hands secured during the wash up to prevent me from touching myself and then it was back in!

I spent time giving her pleasure with a g spot stimulator and oral sex. She seemed to enjoy it and had several orgasms. However there was not relief for me. So far she has refrained from any teasing or suggesting that I be allowed to orgasm. Not sure how long she will make me go without an orgasm. We visited some chastity websites to do some research and found some information for guidelines that we will both agree on including timeframes, rules and discipline.

It is starting to be a mind game as I have no clue when I will get some relief or even some tease play while being told not to orgasm.

[CoolBreeze]

We got the Birdlocked Mini (I am a little below average in size). It fits nicely.I have been locked up for 7 days. We did not end up going to the mountains (too much rain) but stayed around the house. I was kept locked up the entire time except for 10 minutes to remove and clean the device and my penis. Wife had my hands secured during the wash up to prevent me from touching myself and then it was back in!

I spent time giving her pleasure with a g spot stimulator and oral sex. She seemed to enjoy it and had several orgasms. However there was not relief for me. So far she has refrained from any teasing or suggesting that I be allowed to orgasm. Not sure how long she will make me go without an orgasm. We visited some chastity websites to do some research and found some information for guidelines that we will both agree on including timeframes, rules and discipline.

It is starting to be a mind game as I have no clue when I will get some relief or even some tease play while being told not to orgasm.

Thank you for the update. Best wishes , I know you will find the end result very fulfilling and satisfying. You are lucky to have an imaginative and open minded partner.

[JackbNimble]

Update: Day 18 and no sexual release. Wife has let me out for hygiene but no sexual release. I hope tonight might be the night as we are celebrating her birthday. Maybe intercourse. I would be fine with that and then back into lockup. Of course I would love to see some tease and denial on a regular basis and being allowed to orgasm occassionally as directed. Maybe it is all about the control and uncertaintity that she is enjoying. It is sometimes hard to wrap my mind around it but I feel I can hang in there with her.

[Marie123]

My husband and I have a sex game in the same general theme. It does extend much father into our relationship than just the sexual realm. We practice what I call Hardcore Monogamy, basically meaning that we possess each other in a way that keeps us both very locked down in any public situation, and very sexually free (and kinky, etc) when in private. Good times!

[CoolBreeze]

Update: Day 18 and no sexual release. Wife has let me out for hygiene but no sexual release. I hope tonight might be the night as we are celebrating her birthday. Maybe intercourse. I would be fine with that and then back into lockup. Of course I would love to see some tease and denial on a regular basis and being allowed to orgasm occassionally as directed. Maybe it is all about the control and uncertaintity that she is enjoying. It is sometimes hard to wrap my mind around it but I feel I can hang in there with her.

Jack have you tried combining BDSM with denial?