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Guys: Do you like condoms during oral sex?

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  • Guys: Do you like condoms during oral sex?

    So, it seems like the only really safe way to give oral sex would be to use a flavored condom. Even if he's been tested for all STDs, there still may be things that cannot be detected or that he does not know of (HPV, which often doesn't have symptoms, but can lead to throat cancer if it's transmitted orally, for example).

    But, I was wondering if guys actually like this? I mean, is it still pleasurable for them when their partner gives them oral sex with a condom on? Any thoughts on this? Any particular recommended brands?

  • It will almost certainly depend on the person. For me, I wouldn't enjoy it / it wouldn't be worth it. And no, I can't rationalize that opinion, just how I would react.

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    • my first gf loved giving me bj's but insisted on a condom. I couldn't feel anything. I don't even like bj's but to humor her I went along with it. She did love for me to go down on her with my tongue raw. I complained once and said "look, if you want to give me a bj then it's pointless to do it with the condom, do you want me to stick a condom on your clit and lick it then?". So I got it raw a couple of times. Still not the same as straight sex, but it definitely felt way better than with it.

      I still wouldn't ask for a bj unless the girl want to, but if they insist, at least have the decency to do it raw so I can at least enjoy it a bit.
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      • No.

        Sorry, but no.

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        • No.

          Would you want to wear a latex barrier when a man is performing oral sex on you?

          BTW, while I love oral sex, I would never base a relationship upon whether my wife or g/f would perform oral sex on me. Some women do not like giving oral sex to men. That's their preference. I'm good with it.

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          • Originally posted by thecatlady View Post
            So, it seems like the only really safe way to give oral sex would be to use a flavored condom. Even if he's been tested for all STDs, there still may be things that cannot be detected or that he does not know of (HPV, which often doesn't have symptoms, but can lead to throat cancer if it's transmitted orally, for example).

            But, I was wondering if guys actually like this? I mean, is it still pleasurable for them when their partner gives them oral sex with a condom on? Any thoughts on this? Any particular recommended brands?
            Can't speak for every guy, but personally, even if Beyoncé offered me a bj with a condom I'd refuse. I don't even see the point. Does absolutely nothing for me.

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            • They do make barriers for women. No idea the effect they have. Considering it would just flatten parts down it would probably be worse than it is for guys. Probably why you don't hear of anyone using them. I know some do use dental dams when doing anal oral sex. Wouldn't know how that feels either.

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              • Originally posted by thecatlady View Post
                So, it seems like the only really safe way to give oral sex would be to use a flavored condom. Even if he's been tested for all STDs, there still may be things that cannot be detected or that he does not know of (HPV, which often doesn't have symptoms, but can lead to throat cancer if it's transmitted orally, for example).

                But, I was wondering if guys actually like this? I mean, is it still pleasurable for them when their partner gives them oral sex with a condom on? Any thoughts on this? Any particular recommended brands?
                No,Then too I am one of those guys who don't really care about having oral done on me anyway.I perfer doing it on the woman I am with at the time.

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                • I don't use condoms have not since i been married for 27 years and the 2 years dating my wife. I have no reason to do so. I don't have sex with other women my wife enjoys other female friends but I don't hook up with them.
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                  • No - I prefer the 'natural' way
                    However, my wife won't give me a BJ unless I am wearing one, so I have chocolate flavoured ones that she used on the rare occasion she does give me oral sex
                    apparently she doesn't like the 'taste' of a mans penis and I think she is worried I might orgasm and she will get sperm in her mouth

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