[Natalie1962]

Having lived in the swinger lifestyle for years and having been intimate with many men I've had my shares of bad men who seem to find it necessary to ensure a condom failure during sex. Luckily I've always have been on the Pill and condoms were just a barrier for STDs (again, luckily I've never had an STD either). During one encounter the man used a condom during the entire time and at the last moment pulled out, took off his condom and released his sperm inside of me thinking that it would be sexy and I'd thank him for it. My husband was there and he "took care of business" (he a very well built powerful man).

Have any others had men sabotaging or slip off their condoms before?

[jns]

That is despicable conduct. Although I don't get along with condoms due to the lack of sensation that I get, if use of condoms is required per the ground rules, then bypassing them is boorish behavior. I'm glad your husband wised that guy up.

[Natalie1962]

Yes, I'm glad for my husband's protection. Now there were plenty of times that the condom broke inside of me through no fault of anyone. When that happened I didn't worry about it since I enjoy a man's semen being released inside of me. But if it was with someone I didn't know well then of course I got tested. I've never had any issues with STDs (knock on wood) up to this point.

[jen1447]

Hasn't happened here. I think the guys I've been with have known they'd be in for a beating if they tried anything like that.

[kira]

In this area most people use the club to find people even if they are going to another location to have sex. You have to submit your account and photos to the forum and then pay a fee to get in the club. Doing something like that would get you kicked out and banned off the forum that handles the accepted list and helps people make connections on certain days. Using the club means people have already been screened to some level and it's a relatively safe social situation to meet people you've been talking to online.

[Stillness]

I've never done anything like that. I guess that if you lie with dogs you can't be shocked when you get up with fleas.