[JonDoe]

Many couples enjoy using a vibrator on the wife or girlfriend. I'm curious, ladies how do you feel about the idea of occasionally using a toy such as the Fleshlight on your husband or boyfriend?

[Bobich]

Many couples enjoy using a vibrator on the wife or girlfriend. I'm curious, ladies how do you feel about the idea of occasionally using a toy such as the Fleshlight on your husband or boyfriend?

Such a great question! Wish to know too.

Actually, I'm looking forward to present some masturbation sleeve for my bf. Something like Meiki Real i have found on ToyDemon online store. So any suggestions would be appreciated.

[Motorguy]

Well my wife has lots of toys she likes me using on her. But she enjoys them with her girl friends as well with the girls night out once a month. They can for sure spice up the sex life behind closed doors lol.

[suej]

My husband has a much higher sex drive than me, and watches a lot of porn and masturbates without me. But, at at least once a week we do enjoy playtime together, and we almost always use a toy.

I am one of the lucky women who can orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. However, it takes more than a normal sized penis for this to happen. I love my husband in every way, but sadly, I can not under normal circumstances orgasm from penetration with him. A couple years ago we started experimenting with extensions that he wears over his penis, and after some experimenting, we found a solution that works. Once in awhile we use very large dildos, but usually now we have normal intercourse, but with the extension on him. Although he feels nothing, he loves pleasing me this way. And the intimacy is so much better when he wears the extension than it is when he holds a dildo. The extension is like him. We can hold each other, and kiss, and have normal sex.

So, yes, I think toys are great! And so does my husband.

[Motorguy]

That's good then Sue, a good way to spice up the sex life with hubby. So it looks like he's more into pleasuring you. Then himself having that orgasm. That's the problem with many men if all about them self getting off then trying to satisfy there wife's or girl friends.

[Lexhill]

suej: Do you often find other ways to stimulate you husband as well when you have sex? Considering you have way less sex than your husband seem to want? From what you tell I am a little afraid I might know some feelings your husband might have. I just hope i'm wrong. Those feelings would just be very hard for him to tell you, if they are comparable.

I just found your post to give an expression that his needs are not that important. So he might have gone into a kinda submissive position to please you because he loves you.

[suej]

Hi Lex,
my husband and I talk very openly about sex. So I have a good idea where he stands.

After I have an orgasm from him using the extension on me, or from him fisting me while I rub my clitoris, yes, then he gets his turn. He loves penetrating me after I have been all stretched out, and then he orgasms within a minute or two from conventional sex.

[Lexhill]

Good. My concern was no needed then. sounds like you guys have a lot of fun

[Motorguy]

Sounds all good in the bedroom Sue, for you and hubby. What ever you're doing together keep it up and enjoy.

[sexy brenda]

I use a small vibrator sometimes not the long tools to insert into myself when I get the urge. But mostly I still prefer to use my fingers around my clit and to insert my fingers inside my vagina.