[Romy]

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I'm curious, do you use your fingers or some form of a vibrator to masturbate?

If you use a vibrator have you found a decrease in sensitivity making it harder to orgasm during sex?

When I was much younger I would orgasm during sex easily, very quickly and all the time but, I never used a vibrator back then. I rarely masturbated back then - probably because I was having lots of sex and felt very satisfied. Over the years I've relied on a vibrator to masturbate (using my fingers has never worked for me and if I do orgasm that way it's such an insignificant non event that it isn't worth my time and effort) I use the Magic Wand which is pretty powerful. Since using vibrators I have found that orgasming during sex a lot harder. I've thought to wean myself off the wand but then I think I don't want to miss out on my regular orgasms so I feel like I can't win.

[Romy]

Nothing.....I was hoping someone would respond.

[amy40]

you must be the only one interested in this topic!?

[Ashlee T.]

I do believe vibrators can cause a decrease in sensitivity if used too much.

I think this post goes to show that even though we are anonymous here, this is still a very personal topic. People are comfortable discussing masturbation in general, but not as it pertains to themselves specifically. Interesting. :-) Maybe it is because we are mixed company here, with both male and female members?

[atskitty2]

I think I missed the post altogether.

Romy, I have a "tool" but when I do masturbate it's without any tools. Lol.
Just keeping it simple I guess.

[Ashlee T.]

I prefer using a toy, usually. But sometimes I'm lazy and don't want to get up and get it. :-D

[jns]

I didn't answer because I don't use a vibrator (do any guys use them?) Further, I have never seen a woman masturbate in real life (many of my answers are from personal experience or personal observation).

[Sunnydqys]

I use finger, 99% of the time. Hb has severe PE issue, I honestly don't know what is orgasm via intercourse, sad I know, but , I haven't have intercourse for years with hb, because too many issues ( if you read my previous post) anyhow, no intercourse is not the end of my sex world, I have my awesome finger! Yeap, it's always good. Vibrator seems to just not the right speed to me, either too fast or too slow, perhaps I have bought not enough or no luck getting the right one!
but I do think vibrator does decrease sensitivity of orgasm in normal way

[DreamP346]

Vibrator. Fingers have never worked for me. I don't orgasm with intercourse so I couldn't comment on that.

[amy40]

something w/o batteries hid from child