[jns]

I guess you'll just have to wait until your child finds it.

[Romy]

Thanks guys. Jns, I have masturbated for my partners over the years both in front of them and now through technology. It takes such a lot of trust to be able to relax and see it through but I'm glad I can get there for my partner at the time. I love watching my SO masturbate. There's something about it that makes it such a turn on. I'm thinking it's the trust in my case. I used to orgasm within minutes during sex years ago. Now I'm unsure whether it's age or over reliance on my wand that makes it harder to orgasm during sex.

[jns]

Jns, I have masturbated for my partners over the years both in front of them and now through technology. It takes such a lot of trust to be able to relax and see it through but I'm glad I can get there for my partner at the time. I love watching my SO masturbate. There's something about it that makes it such a turn on. I'm thinking it's the trust in my case.

A lot of masturbation is about blocking out the rest of the world and concentrating on that thing that excites you enough to take you over the top.

What would make it special is being able to take it all in, to see as her body's sexual passion grows to a point of going over the top and releasing in orgasm. To watch her facial expressions would be priceless. I can only see some of that during sex or during giving her oral.

A question, have you ever masturbated to orgasm while standing up? I don't think I have done that. I ask because I have had sex standing up and trying to stay standing while reaching orgasm was difficult because my muscles in my legs were shaking so much. The orgasms in such cases were very intense.

[Romy]

A question, have you ever masturbated to orgasm while standing up? I don't think I have done that. I ask because I have had sex standing up and trying to stay standing while reaching orgasm was difficult because my muscles in my legs were shaking so much. The orgasms in such cases were very intense.

jns I have never tried masturbating while standing up, it's never even occurred to me to try. Kneeling in the bath using the shower head is the closest I would get to that. It can be a really intimate act to do in front of your partner (masturbating that is) you need to feel completely at ease and have trust between each other as it can make you feel vulnerable and exposed because it's something most people do in private (which how I masturbate the majority of the time) I love it when my SO has masturbated to orgasm for me. I love seeing how he does it and the sounds he makes.

[jns]

I love it when my SO has masturbated to orgasm for me. I love seeing how he does it and the sounds he makes.

I have done this before, but I need some visual stimulation to do it and it distracts me if my partner is intently watching. What helps your partner along?

[Romy]

I have done this before, but I need some visual stimulation to do it and it distracts me if my partner is intently watching. What helps your partner along?

Gee jns I'm not really sure. I get that it can be distracting to have your partner intently watching you. There are times I lie down and he will straddle me and masturbate and cum on me but that's after lots of foreplay etc beforehand. I guess I make a point of not staring too much and as I get excited by what he's doing I make some small noises and touch him. That's a tricky question because yes, if you feel eyes totally focused on you it can make you feel a little self conscious.

[atskitty2]

I thoroughly enjoy watching the man I'm with masturbate. I know he will do what he likes, so I can attempt to duplicate his preferred style.
Seems it's all basically the same tho, just difference in pressure or speed.

[caster]

I'm usually not goal oriented when I do it alone unless it's just a morning wood thing. It's more about the journey and intensity. When I really want to get into it 40-45 minutes is about my average, although I have gone an hour or more. I've studied and apply Lingam techniques so it's not all fast and furious. Woman could also learn and use Yoni techniques on themselves.
I've learned I can have multiple smaller O's without ejaculation using these techniques. I've never done this type in front of my wife though, generally something more average in the 10 minute range when she's watching or helping. IMO you still need something that is just yours and yours alone.

[amy40]

found it

[amy40]

somehow get distracted and don't remember where put things