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  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Originally posted by JonnyR
    From a dude's perspective, I always liked it when my partners did NOT wear underwear...it was a sexy turn-on, although I totally get why you might need or want to for so many reasons of hygiene, chafing, comfort, etc.

    As for myself, I always wear underwear to bed...I've tried sleeping naked, but it just doesn't feel comfortable for me...stuff just flopping all around and not tightly cradled seems to be more distracting and keeps me awake rather than being freeing.
    My thoughts exactly.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Alison H.
      WHI Lead Administrator
      • Aug 2019
      • 312

      I do — but I'm so prone to UTIs (thanks, menopause!) that I'm afraid not to. I USED to skip underwear years ago, but it's been a LONG time.

      I don't wear anything to bed unless it's cold (and my hot flashes are not flashing to keep me warm...) but during the day, I do wear cotton, comfortable boyshorts — always. I am right there with Gena though — I rarely wear a bra anymore unless I'm going out, or someone is coming over. (And even then, depending on WHO is coming over, I may not bother with it...)

      The pandemic really made me embrace comfort at home, that's for sure.

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      • Zoë T.
        Writer & Contributor
        • Mar 2021
        • 63

        I prefer the feeling of a good pair of cotton underwear to going commando. For some reason I like the feeling of having everything tucked in and dry. It's funny because I like lounging around in boxer shorts, but still wear my regular underwear underneath them - technically I'm doubled up. I haven't worn a bra in years and it's great!

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        • amy40
          Veteran Member
          • Nov 2016
          • 2732

          Originally posted by Zoë T.
          I haven't worn a bra in years and it's great!
          I agree it's freeing to go braless and it's easy to flash husband, lol
          he just laughs when I do

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          • WinstonWoods
            Banned
            • Nov 2022
            • 1

            I can't walk around without underwear. When I'm not wearing underwear, I feel uncomfortable. Some nights I can sleep completely naked, so my body can rest well. But I have never gone out without panties. Among my acquaintances, some girls wear panties only during menstruation.

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            • Jeanette46
              Junior Member
              • Nov 2022
              • 6

              I dont always wear panties in my daily life but i often wear pantyhose to work and often off work so that does it for me, i wear bra at work, not so much at home and covid hasnt changed much for me.

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              • JordinConner
                Junior Member
                • Jan 2023
                • 1

                I always wear underwear regardless of the day of my menstrual cycle. If you're comfortable walking around without panties, don't wear them just because of your boyfriend. I always wear what is comfortable for me. I choose clothes in which I feel confident. I don't have clothes in my wardrobe that make me feel uncomfortable. I prefer sporty style, so you can see about five tracksuits in my wardrobe. At home, I prefer to wear sports kits, such as a top and leggings. I always order quality Women Undergarments that make my body feel great.
                Last edited by jns; 01-11-2023, 08:33 PM.

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                • Rayn
                  Member
                  • Dec 2022
                  • 79

                  As a guy, i personally prefer women to wear underwear, whatever kind they find to be the most comfortable. Because, unless she tells me, i likely wouldn't know she wasn't wearing any anyway. Plus, i like the cat and mouse game of getting them off ;-). But once she does what i refer to as "the lift" which allows me to slide those panties off her sexy body, i know it's go time!

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                  • Shawnak2870
                    Junior Member
                    • Apr 2024
                    • 6

                    I will sometimes go without panties because I find it arousing and risqué. I used to have a partner who liked when I did it too. I also have slept naked for quite some time.

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