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  • Wednesday L.F.
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2020
    • 362

    Best fleshlights / favorite strokers.

    I want to invest in a good fleshlight for [redacted] and while this article has a lot of great info, I’d like to hear from those who have a favorite. What do you love about you fleshlight and what would you change about it if you could?

    They’re pretty expensive so I only want to do this once.

    We’ve found the very best fleshlights including: best overall, tightest, pornstar, quickshot, clear, mouth and more. (Updated 5/2/2026)
  • Alison H.
    WHI Lead Administrator
    • Aug 2019
    • 312

    I can’t speak for myself since I don’t have a penis, but my own [redacted] prefers one that isn’t anatomically correct (he’s a little put off by flesh-toned/realistic disembodied body part toys) and has said great things about the Quickshots. Part of this is the clear design, but because they’re open-ended on either side, they’re VERY easy to clean (and to be able to tell when it is clean).

    One thing I can note too, from my experience using it as a partner, they’re smaller (and more lightweight) so using one on him is easy and comfortable. It isn’t too bulky, and fits into my own hand really well. My [redacted] had to “live” with one for a while when I had a back injury and was out of commission for a bit… now it’s just something fun we use here and there for something different.

    But the best Fleshlight/stroker really depends on the guy and what they like in terms of sensation, aesthetics, and also maintenance effort.

    The Fleshlight Quiz is live — https://www.womens-health.com/fleshlight-quiz — and might be able to help you find the perfect one, along with other personal recommendations that folks make here.
    Last edited by Alison H.; 05-16-2024, 01:04 PM. Reason: Edited for a typo

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    • JonnyR
      Veteran Member
      • May 2018
      • 211

      I have yet to try one of these myself, but they seem to be tried and true - what has it been like 15-20 years that they've been around!

      With all the stuff you can do now with VR, different attachments, porn stars even, the way I see it is if women have a whole plethora of options, it's nice to see some cool stuff for guys!

      I just took the quiz, and am intrigued by the "girls" and the Stamina Training Units (STU's) -- there are a lot of interesting internal sleeves and options on all of these for different stimulation.

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      • Wednesday L.F.
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2020
        • 362

        I talked to a dude who just dropped $300+ on a Kiiro and he loves it. Spending that much on a stroker seems insane to me.

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        • MrMr
          Banned
          • Apr 2019
          • 270

          I'd actually love a flesh light that was a big pair of boobs

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          • MrMr
            Banned
            • Apr 2019
            • 270

            Originally posted by Wednesday L.F.
            I talked to a dude who just dropped $300+ on a Kiiro and he loves it. Spending that much on a stroker seems insane to me.
            It's funny because I'd never spend that on something for me but would happily pay more on women's toys.

            I've had loads of fun with mould your own toys. Both men and women's. It's a unique way to have fun with someone you don't sleep with.

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            • BiBrad95
              Junior Member
              • Jul 2024
              • 7

              I can't use any of the stroker style masturbators because I'm so small I can't fit into any... More pleasurable for me is prostate masturbation

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              • Alison H.
                WHI Lead Administrator
                • Aug 2019
                • 312

                Originally posted by BiBrad95
                I can't use any of the stroker style masturbators because I'm so small I can't fit into any... More pleasurable for me is prostate masturbation
                If strokers are something you'd like to try, there are ways to make them smaller/tighter: https://www.womens-health.com/how-to...hlight-tighter

                (One of which is actually taking the sleeve out of the case and just squeezing it with your hand to tighten as needed.)

                But there are also some that are designed to be super tight, that might work? https://www.womens-health.com/tighte...nse-fleshlight

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                • MrMr
                  Banned
                  • Apr 2019
                  • 270

                  Originally posted by Alison H.

                  If strokers are something you'd like to try, there are ways to make them smaller/tighter: https://www.womens-health.com/how-to...hlight-tighter

                  (One of which is actually taking the sleeve out of the case and just squeezing it with your hand to tighten as needed.)

                  But there are also some that are designed to be super tight, that might work? https://www.womens-health.com/tighte...nse-fleshlight
                  The ones I've tried are often too tight. I normally need to put it on whilst soft and get hard inside it. Not sure if this is the same with others but when I pull it off it feels like I've gained another couple of inches of girth and feels much thicker

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