[cathlily]

hi i have no any past orgasm experience with any sex toy or vibraotr. i have lot of money. what brand or what product will you suggest me as vibraotr. anyone who has real experience tell me.

[Alison H.]

You've definitely come to the right place to ask (and welcome to the forums!)

Being a beginner with vibrators, we've got a lot of great (tested) suggestions in this article: https://www.womens-health.com/vibrators-for-beginners (that includes video reviews you watch to learn more about each)

My best advice is to experiment with more than one, especially while you're trying to figure out what works best for you (do you prefer clitoral stimulation, G-spot stimulation, or both; light buzzy vibrations or deep rumbly ones; et cetera).

For clitoral stimulation, the Bloomi Play Mini (bullet) or Hitachi Magic Wand are great picks to start with. And if you're curious about trying a clit sucking vibrator, hands-down the Satisfyer Pro 2 is the best (and our testing team's favorite). It's super beginner-friendly, too.

If you've got questions about any particular product, don't hesitate to ask! We're here to help.

[Acesup]

Do any women have any experience with their partner wearing a vibrating **** ring that has a rose clit stimulator at the base so like when you are being penetrated in intercourse the rose is also vibing your clit. My wife likes nothing but penetration, like no foreplay right to stick it in and pound is all she wants, and I'm having a real hard problem with how hard that makes it for me to give her orgasms. I am looking for any competitive advantage I can get to increase my ability to give her pleasure within her boundaries. If something like that works and I could get her to try it, would be a game changer. I really really miss the feeling of getting her off. Best feeling in the world, no drug can compare.

Along the same lines doe any women have experience with whether those wedge shaped or body contour shaped intimacy pillows that are supposed to change the angle so penetration hits the g spot better, are those pillows any benefit or all hype?

[JonnyR]

I've tried this exact design before and it was fun! My partner really liked that there was a toy for men that would give us both extra pleasure at the same time.

The vibrations felt really nice and, in fact, stimulated me so much that I did not think I would last too long.

I would recommend it and say try it! A secret tip -- when you are thrusting, occasionally STOP at the end of the thrust for a brief pause, so they can really feel the rumbles from the rose vibrator part on her clit, and it really adds an extra dimension.

She might also dig riding on top because of that as well -- there are lots of options here.

[Pinkipay]

Do any women have any experience with their partner wearing a vibrating **** ring that has a rose clit stimulator at the base so like when you are being penetrated in intercourse the rose is also vibing your clit. My wife likes nothing but penetration, like no foreplay right to stick it in and pound is all she wants, and I'm having a real hard problem with how hard that makes it for me to give her orgasms. I am looking for any competitive advantage I can get to increase my ability to give her pleasure within her boundaries. If something like that works and I could get her to try it, would be a game changer. I really really miss the feeling of getting her off. Best feeling in the world, no drug can compare.

Along the same lines doe any women have experience with whether those wedge shaped or body contour shaped intimacy pillows that are supposed to change the angle so penetration hits the g spot better, are those pillows any benefit or all hype?

I think trying a vibrating ring could be worth it, especially if it helps stimulate her clit during penetration. Every woman is different, so it might take some experimenting to find what works best for both of you. The pillows might help with the angle too, but I’d start with the ring and see how she likes it.