[Guest]

yeah, the photo booth then a movie should give you an indication. let her pick the movie and dont put your arm around her unless she puts her head on your sholder or leans towards you first.

also, be very very careful about flowers. It's counter intuitive, but a single red rose has much more meaning than 12 of them. I learned that the hard way...

if it's not roses, picking a good flower is not an easy task. besides, it's a pain to carry a bouquet of flowers around on a date...

[jerbal]

yeah, the photo booth then a movie should give you an indication. let her pick the movie and dont put your arm around her unless she puts her head on your sholder or leans towards you first.

also, be very very careful about flowers. It's counter intuitive, but a single red rose has much more meaning than 12 of them. I learned that the hard way...

if it's not roses, picking a good flower is not an easy task. besides, it's a pain to carry a bouquet of flowers around on a date...

haha thank you very much
I really like this girl and don't wanna screw anything up

[Guest]

follow your heart.
if you follow your heart you will do fine. if you need advice, ask and dont be affraid to follow the advice you seek. and you are doing so. good start.
take it slow and easy, dont seem to eager. that can scare her and possible make it a bad thing.
one flower is great, an easy date, more towards the friendship but with a twist that you wouldnt do with just any friend.

long ago, i tried the same you ask about. we went for a drive and i really liked her. went as friends to atlantic city to have fun and gamble. i so wanted to ask her on the way but didnt b/c it would had made the date very awkward if it didnt go as planned. when we got there we did the gambling thing, walked the board walk and talked, had dinner, and gambled some more. on the way home stopped off for coffee and talked more. 3 hrs later when we got to her house, i got my fear out of the way and told her i had so much fun talking, dinning, walking and all. so i asked her what she felt and she felt the same. i would have not known if i didnt ask.
dont be too fancy, but not lame. find what it is that you both can do and go there. find a common ground that is fun and all. and ask her. it will show 2 things for sure. 1st it will show that you can be friends which you have to in arelationship, and 2nd it will also show that you you care enough to see if there is another level between you.
you have only fear of your own.
if she is for you, you will be together. if she is your friend and friend only, she will not be offended but rather flattered. and you both can be happy with either of those 2 outcomes. you both know where you stand when you do hang out.
if she takes offence and tosses you aside, then she isnt much of a friend to be honest and shouldnt feel shameful or anything of you asking.
she might be waiting for you to ask. did you ever think of that?
take a breath, and go for it. but be careful, and find the right time and place. you will know when and where that is. follow your heart!!!