[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well one more question is there a way I can not feel completely nervous around him? And I am sorry that they were very similar questions CHANDLERS WISH. I figured one was about flirting and one was and one was about attraction. lol.

lol did I forget to add, it's cool.

Fear is an amazing thing is it not?

There are some good thoughts up above by guys as well.... and they know what would turn them off, let's face it.

Definately smile, can you make a joke maybe where he laughs and then spit out the words you want quickly..

I am sure if he is shy, then he won't care if your nervous, even becoming friends can be nerve racking...

CW

[Tara_tiara]

Hey you guys I just wanted to update that I asked him to homecoming about 1 week ago and he said yes so Woot Woot!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Wicked, way to go... !!

Hope it is all you want it to be and more, post us a picture of what your wearing, so we can share it with you lol.

WELL DONE!!!

CW

[Texinator]

Plus if she gives him hints and he doesn't bite that means he isn't interested in that way

No, no, no, no! Many guys are clueless dorks that won't pick up on any of the hints. Sometimes you just have to ask them out directly.

Trust me. I'm the Dork Master. I wrote the book on being oblivious. An interested girl could walk up to me, strip naked, shove her breasts in my face and rub her crotch on my thigh, and instead of thinking 'Oh, yeah, she's interested in me!' I would be like 'Oh, I didn't know she is a stripper. Maybe she is trying to sneak in some practice before work?'

I know for a fact I've lost out on several potential relationships because of that. One was an older girl in high school on whom I had a huge crush. I later found out that she had a huge crush on me and was throwing me hints left and right, but my pea brain didn't get the message.

[Texinator]

Hey you guys I just wanted to update that I asked him to homecoming about 1 week ago and he said yes so Woot Woot!

Nice going!

[mr.mansview]

No, no, no, no! Many guys are clueless dorks that won't pick up on any of the hints. Sometimes you just have to ask them out directly.

Trust me. I'm the Dork Master. I wrote the book on being oblivious. An interested girl could walk up to me, strip naked, shove her breasts in my face and rub her crotch on my thigh, and instead of thinking 'Oh, yeah, she's interested in me!' I would be like 'Oh, I didn't know she is a stripper. Maybe she is trying to sneak in some practice before work?'

I know for a fact I've lost out on several potential relationships because of that. One was an older girl in high school on whom I had a huge crush. I later found out that she had a huge crush on me and was throwing me hints left and right, but my pea brain didn't get the message.

i'm with u on that tex..not sure u have to be a dork to be clueless but i too do not pick up on hints either..i might have clued in to the stripper one however

[PJhavinfunagain]

So glad you wrote that Tex! I was going to say the same thing. Especially if he is a bit shy he may never pick up on it. I know DH still in many ways cannot read me. I have to spell out many things...

Good going Tara! Have fun and just get to really know each other. Luck!

[caterpillar79]

i'm with u on that tex..not sure u have to be a dork to be clueless but i too do not pick up on hints either..i might have clued in to the stripper one however

You guys are funny. Yet, at the same time, you also throw hints here and there, and drive the girls crazy!

[Texinator]

You're welcome.

[ThexMrs]

Sit by him at church. Smile at him when appropriate...make small talk or have a conversation with him. Make sure you flirt *a little*, play with your hair, your head...touch him briefly on the arm if he tells a joke. Actions always speak louder than words...SHOW him you're interested...

Relax, the more you talk with him the more comfortable you will become. Don't rush things, don't be unnatural. Whatever you do, dont' show too much interest too soon. You may scare him away.

If things are going to happen, they will.

Best of luck, sounds like you two are good kids.

Those were going to be my suggestions.

Smile at him from across the way. Not a full cheesy one but a nice smile.

When he's talking to you, tilt your head to the side and smile.

If he says something funny, giggle. Don't blurt out a big old laugh unless you can't help it, lol.

Bite your bottom lip too. That always works for me.

Look into his eyes then look at his lips then back up to his eyes.

Definitely touch his arm or something. Contact is good.

Is that too dirty? I don't know. Those are my suggestions.