[Amber]

Originally Posted by rcoreyus View Post
must resist urge to post inappropriate joke ........

Figures. LOL I forgot to the group of people are were talking to here.

The picture people, I'm talking about the size of the picture. But you guys already knew that, right?

[Texinator]

Sure you were. Eleven inches and you're thinking of a picture?! Yeah right..

NOW we know why you were not getting good results using your handd. Those delicate fingers of yours just weren't big enough, huh.

[Amber]

Sure you were. Eleven inches and you're thinking of a picture?! Yeah right..

NOW we know why you were not getting good results using your handd. Those delicate fingers of yours just weren't big enough, huh.

11'' was the width. That would be pretty scary. lol

[Texinator]

Ouch.

[Amber]

Ouch.

You are not kidding, ouch. I pity the woman he is putting it into. LOL

[Texinator]

'I f*ck tree stumps!' Now there's a fun bumper sticker.

[Amber]

My fwb friend and I were joking around one time. I'm so tight inside, even after the third time we did it. I would need to find someone who isn't too big. He was saying when I looked for a guy, I had better ask him what size his privates are. The guy will probably boast, saying he is big. But what he wouldn't realize is that would backfire on him. I would tell him sorry but get lost. He wouldn't know what hit him.

[Amber]

'I f*ck tree stumps!' Now there's a fun bumper sticker.

Hilarious but scary. LOL

[Texinator]

I'm so tight inside,

Showoff!

[WildChild]

Humm this moves us to something I meant to suggest a while back, actually I may have suggested already. This is a long thread my dear. Look at this 42 pages and still going strong!

Back to the subject, being tight is a good thing. It can enhance sex for both you and your partner. But it needs to be controlled tightness. In other words being tight because the muscles are strong, not because of tension or lack of use. When you have that muscle control you can not only tighten them at will, you can also relax them. Control (this is true of men too).

Kegels are the answer to this. They are important for many reasons, as they also improve bladder control and bowel function. Loose muscles can't hold or move things. You can find lots of instruction on this but basically, when you pee, stop the flow. You just used your PC muscles. Those are the ones you want, some people get confused and think tightening their butt will do it, that's a good exersize but it's not a kegel. Once you've found those muscles, you need to practice contracting them and holding, start with 10 repetitions, several times a day and get up to 100. The beauty of these is that you can do them almost anywhere, anytime. Sitting at a red light, standing in the checkout line, watching tv, in a boring meeting. You can do them standing, sitting or laying down, in fact I think it's good to vary it. Sometimes I can cum just doing kegels. Not a big O but a pleasing little shiver of one or multiples.

BUT...here's the deal. You can do these all day and get some results. To really get it working you need a resistance device. Dr Kegel who figured this out intended that they be done with some resistance. I love my Kegel Master. I did kegels for many years and I'll tell you that little thing ramped it up amazingly. Some women like to use vaginal weights, I haven't tried those so I can't really comment on them. If you want to PM me I'll give you info on where I ordered mine, I got a nice instructional DVD with it and a "secondary" device" which was supposed to help the user make sure they found the right muscles. LOL it's a tiny vibe. The Kegel Master is used intervaginally, that's the only way you can get resistance to those muscles. Anyway you might find starting to do these with a device is enough to get you that breakthrough into orgasm. Even if it doesn't your body will be in better shape.