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It seems like I got a little bit further but no new feelings. But I did realize when I start to feel it, it feels like then my hips tighten. I tried to relax them and that feeling that makes me breath quick and heavy keeps coming. I'm finding that maybe lying down is not the best thing. Because I find myself for some reason wanting to throw my head back but I can't, if it is already in the pillow.
Because of this, maybe the best position for me would have been my legs wrapped around the guys waist as he wraps his arms around me, with myself in him. I could easily throw my head back then. Not the romantic way of having sex but I bet it is probably good.
But no guy so that position won't be working just yet. And I know I just can't sit up straight with nothing supporting me because with those feelings, I'm going to need something to support me.
But it is not just the position, I can tell that I'm not ultra relaxed yet. When I get those feelings, it makes me tense a little. Not nearly as much as I use to but still. There was time when I would have pulled away with the feelings I had today but I wouldn't let myself. I tried to let it ride through. It is funny but when I say those feelings, it is the same aggitated feeling that I dreaded before. But now that i'm relaxed more, it feels a little bit different and I'm letting myself relax enough to enjoy it some. But I'm guessing I need to relax even more. But I can see why women scream during sex.
It makes you want to scream for some reason!! Even feeling what I have so far is something. Before it use to feel like h*ll but not anymore. It is not the most wonderful feeling but it is getting much better at least. And the orgasm hasn't even happened yet.
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The reason why I tried to relax it was because I thought that meant I was tensing up and doing something wrong. So next time I know to try and go with the flow.
Something tells me I'm going to be sore tomorrow in my area below my abs. I'm already feeling it. That is from my hips going up and down.Comment
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There is tension brought on by fear and there is tension brought on by happy feelings. I think you're starting to feel the latter. Some women have their legs go stiff on them or even have slight muscle spasms.
Your hips are probably moving up because your vagina's thinking 'Penis, please!' and sending your hips on a 'search'
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I like that one. My hips are on a search. Well, my hips are going to have to stretch real far because there is no guy anywhere close.There is tension brought on by fear and there is tension brought on by happy feelings. I think you're starting to feel the latter. Some women have their legs go stiff on them or even have slight muscle spasms.
Your hips are probably moving up because your vagina's thinking 'Penis, please!' and sending your hips on a 'search'
But you mention muscle spams. I'm thinking I'm slightly have those but not sure.Comment
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