[Miya]

haha just try it with stockings too when you do. They seem to really like that

[Guest]

haha just try it with stockings too when you do. They seem to really like that

THIGH high stockings.....with lace at the top. White or black.

[Miya]

ahh yes thigh highs. White for darker tones or blonds, black for lighter tones and brunettes.

[Hopeless Dork]

blah, I don't know how well the making a vid yourself works to curb their interest in STILL viewing other chicks vids goes. I mean by all means make them, he'll like it... but will he still want to look others, yeah probably so.

I think guys, even faithful good guys, just need to look at other women in a sexual way sometimes. We have to suck it up and deal. For most women, we don't have that need to see other men in order to get ourselves excited or to produce an orgasm... Men, by and large seem to need to see lots, of different, women.

I get annoyed because its such an unfair thing, no its not cheating... but because they are men -- them lusting after other women is 'normal' and we're never to feel down on ourselves, like we're not adequate 'material' because its just how guys are.

Men. Could. Not. Take it. Oh they say they can, but thats only because they know they won't have to. If you were youtubin' guys waving their penises all day, he would get a complex. No doubt. But that ain't gonna happen... is it? lol. Thats life.

[AloneNtheCrowd]

Well my GF has a "List", every guy on the list gets her all grinning and hot at there sight. And it's a long list I don't have a list myself lol! So I'm sure some women enjoy similar perks!

[Hopeless Dork]

Girls will find other men attractive and even be like dang he's cute- most don't drop pants and break out the lube to it though - lol

[AloneNtheCrowd]

LOL true indeed Hopeless!

[WildChild]

Girls will find other men attractive and even be like dang he's cute- most don't drop pants and break out the lube to it though - lol

True, absolutely.
I have a good imagination but what always gets me going is thinking of that one special man.

[Hopeless Dork]

True, absolutely.
I have a good imagination but what always gets me going is thinking of that one special man.

This is the part that gets me. Ever since falling in love, I don't need to do anything but think of my guy to be able to get the job done when having some time to myself. He does it for me, in everyway. He tells me I do the same. Yet... he will look at other women to satisfy himself when we're apart.

I have come to accept it, but that doesn't mean I have to like it and jump for joy about it. I still wish that me, myself could be enough for guy I love the way he is for me. Sure I am enough for him physically but mentally he still craves viewing other women from time to time for sexual pleasure.

I know its normal. I know there is nothing wrong with a guy taking some time for fantasy now and then. I don't get angry about it. But does it make me feel inadequate... you betcha.

But I guess guys just REALLY have a hard time with building fantasies in their head. I mean I know they can, and some do... but the vast majority turn to porn when they want to masturbate. Almost like a reflex... hard on? Oh I better get online and find something to take care of it... no hard on? Oh i better get online and find something to give me one, and then take care of it.

Mine doesn't do that often, I really burn his energy up lol... but even though its infrequent when it happens, it hurts my feelings. Imagining him watching these girls... wondering what he is thinking about, is he wishing they were his girl instead of me... if he was with the girl he was maturbating to... would that be enough for him? Would he need to masturbate to someone else even if he had the girl of his dreams?

I guess the fear is that he wouldn't. The fear that I am not the girl of his dreams.. that causes me to hurt. I hate thinking I'm something he settled for while his fantasies linger on other women.

[GlitterAndStuds]

I guess the fear is that he wouldn't. The fear that I am not the girl of his dreams.. that causes me to hurt. I hate thinking I'm something he settled for while his fantasies linger on other women.

It CAN be a major shot to the ego, yes. But the way I've always thought of it is that [most] guys could have THE most perfect woman in the world... but they would still look at things with other girls in it, even if they're less than great. I don't think it's so much about you not being good enough, since you're the one he chose out of everyone, though. I think it's more like they tend to like that variety and that visual stimulation if you don't happen to be there.

Mine hasn't looked at porn or anything in a really long time, since we usually wear each other out enough, haha. I'd just be glad he's only window shopping instead of making the purchase (eh? eeeeh?).

Oh and referring to what ANTC said, he and I also totally have lists... haha. Except they're people we would never have a chance with. And even if we did, neither of us would actually let the other do it. It's fun though. My list is pretty long too...