[CHANDLERS WISH]

So, you achieved both

People to talk to and a Blog.....

But, blogs don't ask for up-dates, you just do them if you want.

But, us lot are going to ask you for "up-dates" please

CW

[mm1991]

Thanks CW

First of all I am need a hug, please anyone

I had the most horrible couple of days, I don't know where to start. I only came back to UK and I feel like running away somewhere already (Dublin ).

My EX boyfriend called me three times. Bonehead. First, surely I was joking, yeah right, like no one ever dumps him. Well wake up a smell the roses. Than he asks is it because of [female I know]? If so people are lying, they are jelous nothing happened (while I was away). Well, I don't know about anyone and frankly I don't care. Finally, in his third call, he is like really obnoxious and call me names. Especially because he knows how much I HATE being called names. Told him not to bother calling me ever again. And grow up you(edit)!

Also I had to explain something like 100 times to my friends why did I dumped him. I don't think I sounded convincing. I said I need some time and space but they are not buying it I can tell. I should have thought of something better (tips?). Half of the so called friends even asked, like am I SURE?, and is he FREE than?, and would I REALLY not mind if they had a go? Gimme a break. Choke on him. Literally lol.

Finally there are the boys, they have heard the news and they are off! Like flies on (edit) I just knew it. I would be lying if I said I don't like attention, but I really don't wan't any right now. I just want to be left alone. It's all little bit to much.

[GlitterAndStuds]

Oy. That's a little overwhelming.

Just ignore his calls if he's going to be immature. Delete any texts without reading them if he sends them.

If people keep asking... simply tell them that you appreciate the concern, but you just don't feel like talking about it. It's none of their business anyway.

[mm1991]

I am not really worried about my ex.

More about my friends.

It's not that easy. I have lots of friends and we talk a lot about many things even some intimate things. I am not giving them enough information, and they are not bying it.

May be I am just imagining things, but I feel like they know I have a secret.

[Guest]

so why dont you tell your friends you are seeing someone and want to keep it on the down-low for now?

[mm1991]

You don't know them!!!

They'll all want to know who he is!

They'll all think they are the only ones that don't know who that someone is!

I'd never hear the end of it.

[Guest]

well you'll have to tell them at some point. why the wait? unless you are planning on telling them after the trip.

[mm1991]

srerosi you dont understand!!!

No one must EVER know

[empty vase]

babe with ur x acting the way he did, understand it from his side. he really liked you and you broke his heart, this is his way of dealing with it and trying to heal himself or make himself feel better by calling you names which in reality wont really help him. if it was the other way, trust me, you would of done the same but maybe not to his face or on the phone but i'm sure behind his back. i've only had 1 nice breakup, i cried and till now think of what a sweetheart he was. the others, one sent his little brother after me who chased me with a knife and the other called me names which i laughed and said "so.." caz i know i aint what he calls so no point getting botherd or retaliating.

enjoy while it lasts my friend

[CHANDLERS WISH]

srerosi you dont understand!!!

No one must EVER know

Yes actually, sperosi does understand, see you have been talking and telling them things for ever, including intimate things, which is why some of the girls are asking if they can sleep with him cause you spilled the beans of your sexual life

That happened to me once, many years ago....

So, they will see the pattern that your hiding something and they will know and it will have to come out.

But, what I don't understand is WHY? must no one ever know?

I thought, you thought, this may lead somewhere even though us Mum's here are saying be careful with your heart

CW

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