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  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    Originally posted by Tabz
    Hmmmmm.. But what do you think he wants? I mean the reason why i asssumed he wanted to meet at his place was because, londons weather is very bad, raining and stuff.. So we thought it would be easier to go to his house, or he was going to come mine... Hmmm. Bad idea i take it ?
    NO NO NO!!!! No houses, yours or his! NO! If you're dieing to meet him, go PUBLIC!

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    • ocularone
      Senior Member
      • Feb 2010
      • 182

      Originally posted by LanaBear
      NO NO NO!!!! No houses, yours or his! NO! If you're dieing to meet him, go PUBLIC!

      +1

      None of us can really say for sure what he wants.. Tabz, from how i hear you speak in other threads, you seem like you have a very good head on your shoulders. It doesn't seem like this guy(super hot or not) would ever really be good husband or dating material for you. It's normal to be attracted to someone who is virtually the polar opposite of you..but his lifestyle is obviously not in line with your priorities. Am i right?
      [I]"I met in the street a very poor young man who was in love. His hat was old, his coat worn, his cloak was out at the elbows, the water passed through his shoes, - and the stars through his soul."[/I]- [B]Victor Hugo[/B]

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      • WildChild
        Banned
        • Sep 2008
        • 14142

        Very very bad idea to let anyone you don't know well into your home, or even to have your address. Certainly don't go to his place. You know nothing about him really. He might be harmless or he might be a monster. NEVER put yourself into someone else's power. You could vanish, who would even know where you were?

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        • Tabz
          Member
          • Feb 2010
          • 39

          Originally posted by ocularone
          +1

          It doesn't seem like this guy(super hot or not) would ever really be good husband or dating material for you. It's normal to be attracted to someone who is virtually the polar opposite of you..but his lifestyle is obviously not in line with your priorities.
          You're right.. i'm just wasting my time i suppose. Should i just ignore him then, or should i tell him i wouldnt be able to meet him this week?
          [FONT="Arial Narrow"][SIZE="3"][I]In a world that is doing it's best to make you some body else be nothing but yourself [/I]- [B]Tabz Navad[/B][/SIZE][/FONT]

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          • Tabz
            Member
            • Feb 2010
            • 39

            Originally posted by WildChild
            Very very bad idea to let anyone you don't know well into your home, or even to have your address. Certainly don't go to his place. You know nothing about him really. He might be harmless or he might be a monster. NEVER put yourself into someone else's power. You could vanish, who would even know where you were?
            wow. you're so right.
            i don't even know how i could have been so stupid :/


            THANK YOU ALL SOO MUCH!!
            [FONT="Arial Narrow"][SIZE="3"][I]In a world that is doing it's best to make you some body else be nothing but yourself [/I]- [B]Tabz Navad[/B][/SIZE][/FONT]

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            • ocularone
              Senior Member
              • Feb 2010
              • 182

              I honestly don't see the point in meeting him if you already know he isn't right for you...
              Whether you ignore/block him or not is completely your decision. Just keep your wits about you and don't allow that "bad boy attraction syndrome" get in the way of your instinct and your logic. Why don't you just lay off for a few days and see how you feel?
              [I]"I met in the street a very poor young man who was in love. His hat was old, his coat worn, his cloak was out at the elbows, the water passed through his shoes, - and the stars through his soul."[/I]- [B]Victor Hugo[/B]

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              • Tabz
                Member
                • Feb 2010
                • 39

                Originally posted by ocularone
                I honestly don't see the point in meeting him if you already know he isn't right for you...
                Whether you ignore/block him or not is completely your decision. Just keep your wits about you and don't allow that "bad boy attraction syndrome" get in the way of your instinct and your logic. Why don't you just lay off for a few days and see how you feel?

                Hmmmmm.. yeaah. you know i did not think he was going to ask me out or anything.. just thought we could chill out and get to know eachother face to face. cause talking online was weird. i preffer face to face conversations
                [FONT="Arial Narrow"][SIZE="3"][I]In a world that is doing it's best to make you some body else be nothing but yourself [/I]- [B]Tabz Navad[/B][/SIZE][/FONT]

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                • ocularone
                  Senior Member
                  • Feb 2010
                  • 182

                  are you having phone conversations?
                  [I]"I met in the street a very poor young man who was in love. His hat was old, his coat worn, his cloak was out at the elbows, the water passed through his shoes, - and the stars through his soul."[/I]- [B]Victor Hugo[/B]

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                  • Tabz
                    Member
                    • Feb 2010
                    • 39

                    Well we had?
                    I sorta stopped going on myspace a few months ago, cause i was trying to concentrate on my studies, then when i came back we spoke again..

                    Why ?
                    [FONT="Arial Narrow"][SIZE="3"][I]In a world that is doing it's best to make you some body else be nothing but yourself [/I]- [B]Tabz Navad[/B][/SIZE][/FONT]

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                    • Tabz
                      Member
                      • Feb 2010
                      • 39

                      oohh and so i ignored his calls when he rang me during those months...
                      [FONT="Arial Narrow"][SIZE="3"][I]In a world that is doing it's best to make you some body else be nothing but yourself [/I]- [B]Tabz Navad[/B][/SIZE][/FONT]

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