[collegegirl2010]

collegegirl, there guys out there who like every category of body shape that women come in. Some like skinny, some like fat, some like big boobs, some like flat, some like curvy, some like narrow, etc. Personally I like an Asian body style which usually means narrower hips and a smaller bust. So your body figure is perfect for me.

What is more important for compatibility is personality. I would rather have someone who's body style is quite different than my preference but who's personality I loved and found both compatible and intriguing than one who had the perfect shape but to me was the ice princess. I know that if I fall in love that my ideals will change to include my lover, but a bad personality is just bad.

I try not to worry too much about it, because in the end personality really does matter more. But I think the media and the fact that everyone in my family is curvier than me, that really makes me hate the way I look...Thanks

[collegegirl2010]

Men are visually stimulated, that is to say, we look at all figures. For me, as long as the woman.......who am I kidding, you all have something that appeals to me. Sorry collegegirl that probably doesn't help much.

P.S. If that is you in the picture, you don't have anything to worry about.

Thanks and that's good to know you sound like a very open-minded person, I like that

[collegegirl2010]

Hi Collegegirl
I think you look cute in the pictures you've posted on here so nothing to worry about. I suggest you believe you are cute (not in an aragent way) this will help you get.

I have two preferences: Younger slim small and perky ("someone to look after and protect")or Older with a curves and a slighty bigger bust ("Lioness to protect my cubs"). I know this opens me up to alsorts Freudian comments but you did ask

I always say "looks make you go there and personality makes you stay"

Apparently we are looking for geonetically and physicaly fit specificmens to bere our children. Not sure if I agree but healthy (physically and mentally) is helpful :-)

Some guys will not approach or go out with SUPER HOT women, no matter how nice, 'cos It is stressful and "shes out of my league" and other men.

Thanks for the compliment, don't always get that... and you do have a good point there